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Nga Xhon L. Uidhers<\/strong>, 27.11.2009<\/em><\/p>\n M\u00eb 28 shtator bota u zgjua me lajmet e sapoardhura p\u00ebr dhun\u00eb t\u00eb parr\u00ebfyeshme ushtruar ndaj grave.<\/p>\n N\u00eb Guine, “beretat e kuqe,” garda e republik\u00ebs, kishte p\u00ebrdhunuar, n\u00ebn k\u00ebrc\u00ebnimin e arm\u00ebve – n\u00eb grup, gra t\u00eb moshave t\u00eb ndryshme, me nj\u00eb mizori t\u00eb atill\u00eb saq\u00eb ato q\u00eb nuk vdiq\u00ebn menj\u00ebher\u00eb, nd\u00ebrruan jet\u00eb m\u00eb pas p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb plag\u00ebve. Gjat\u00eb dhjet\u00eb viteve t\u00eb fundit, n\u00eb Republik\u00ebn Demokratike t\u00eb Kongos, ushtar\u00ebt kan\u00eb dhunuar dhe gjymtuar grat\u00eb si pjes\u00eb e nj\u00eb strategjie t\u00eb q\u00ebllimshme dhe t\u00eb bashk\u00ebrenduar p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrruar bashk\u00ebsi civile. Dhe, dhuna me baz\u00eb gjinore nuk p\u00ebrfundon n\u00eb zonat e luft\u00ebs apo n\u00eb rajonet n\u00eb konflikt.<\/p>\n Grat\u00eb dhe vajzat sulmohen p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb gjinis\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7do pik\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre, q\u00eb nga vrasja e fetuseve femra, n\u00eb ofrimin e kujdesit sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor dhe ushqyerjes s\u00eb pamjaftueshme ofruar vajzave, n\u00eb martesat q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, n\u00eb trafikimin, n\u00eb t\u00eb ashtuquajturat vrasje “p\u00ebr nder,” n\u00eb vrasjet e lidhura me paj\u00ebn dhe n\u00eb neglizhimin e d\u00ebbimin e vejushave – dhe kjo list\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shteruese.<\/p>\n Dhuna ndaj grave dhe vajzave mbetet nj\u00eb problem serioz edhe n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, nj\u00eb problem q\u00eb prek dhe shkakton vuajtje p\u00ebr grat\u00eb e t\u00eb gjitha moshave, profesioneve dhe prejardhjeve sociale.<\/p>\n Dhuna kund\u00ebr grave dhe vajzave shqiptare manifestohet n\u00eb abuzimin fizik, psikologjik, ekonomik dhe seksual. T\u00eb pakt\u00ebn nj\u00eb e treta e grave n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri p\u00ebrllogariten t\u00eb ken\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuar dhun\u00eb fizike brenda familjes. Ato rrihen dhe, n\u00eb disa raste, edhe vriten.<\/p>\n Shum\u00eb p\u00ebrballen me sulme verbale dhe posht\u00ebrim t\u00eb vazhduesh\u00ebm, mbik\u00ebqyrje dhe izolim n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, k\u00ebrc\u00ebnim se do t\u00eb ndahen prej f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre, mohim t\u00eb ushqimit dhe t\u00eb nevojave baz\u00eb, si dhe refuzim pun\u00ebsimi. N\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb studimeve t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb familje n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, ky fenomen, si n\u00eb shum\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb bot\u00ebs, konsiderohet t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje private, e megjithat\u00eb ndikon nj\u00eb p\u00ebrqindje t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb popullsis\u00eb s\u00eb nj\u00eb vendi.<\/p>\n Ligji kund\u00ebr dhun\u00ebs brenda familjes ka ndihmuar n\u00eb rritjen e nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimit mbi k\u00ebto \u00e7\u00ebshtje dhe v\u00ebnien n\u00eb dispozicion t\u00eb ndihm\u00ebs p\u00ebr viktimat p\u00ebrmes sistemit ligjor dhe organizatave jofitimprur\u00ebse.<\/p>\n Megjith\u00ebk\u00ebt\u00eb, zbatimi i ligjit mbetet i mang\u00ebt. Q\u00eb prej vitit 1991, bota ka ve\u00e7uar 16 dit\u00eb q\u00eb e lidhin 25 n\u00ebntorin, Dit\u00ebn Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare p\u00ebr Eliminimin e Dhun\u00ebs ndaj Gruas, me 10 dhjetorin, Dit\u00ebn Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare p\u00ebr t\u00eb Drejtat e Njeriut, p\u00ebr t\u00eb n\u00ebnvizuar iden\u00eb q\u00eb dhuna e kryer kund\u00ebr grave p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb gjinis\u00eb s\u00eb tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dhunim thelb\u00ebsor i t\u00eb drejtave t\u00eb njeriut. Kjo dhun\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb “kulturore”, \u00ebsht\u00eb kriminale. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb problem i \u00e7do kombi dhe ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje t\u00eb till\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrpjes\u00ebtim me seriozitetin e k\u00ebtyre krimeve.<\/p>\n Sulmi mbi grat\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb faj\u00ebsohet mbi disa shkel\u00ebs anormal\u00eb. Por, k\u00ebto forma t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs burojn\u00eb prej statusit t\u00eb ul\u00ebt, t\u00eb rr\u00ebnjosur prej koh\u00ebsh, t\u00eb grave dhe vajzave n\u00eb mbar\u00eb bot\u00ebn. Dh\u00ebnia fund dhun\u00ebs – trajtimi i shkaqeve, por edhe simptomave – k\u00ebrkon q\u00eb ne jo vet\u00ebm t\u00eb rrisim ndjekjen penale t\u00eb shkel\u00ebsve, por edhe t\u00eb punojm\u00eb drejt barazis\u00eb s\u00eb plot\u00eb t\u00eb grave n\u00eb \u00e7do sfer\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs.<\/p>\n Dhuna gjinore nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje e grave, por \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb sfid\u00eb bot\u00ebrore p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejtat dhe sigurin\u00eb e njeriut. Si nj\u00eb problem nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtar, ajo k\u00ebrkon zgjidhje nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare.<\/p>\n Dhe qeveria e ShBA \u00ebsht\u00eb e p\u00ebrkushtuar t\u00eb punoj\u00eb me qeverit\u00eb, institucionet shum\u00ebpal\u00ebshe dhe me nj\u00eb spekt\u00ebr t\u00eb gjer\u00eb partner\u00ebsh privat\u00eb – duke nisur q\u00eb nga aktivist\u00ebt dhe mb\u00ebshtet\u00ebsit, deri te t\u00eb mbijetuarit dhe drejtuesit e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb civile – p\u00ebr t’i dh\u00ebn\u00eb fund pand\u00ebshkueshm\u00ebris\u00eb s\u00eb autor\u00ebve t\u00eb k\u00ebtyre krimeve dhe p\u00ebr t’u siguruar q\u00eb ligjet, t\u00eb cilat njohin barazin\u00eb dhe t\u00eb drejtat e grave q\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb \u00e7liruara prej dhun\u00ebs, t\u00eb zbatohen plot\u00ebsisht. Ne po u k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb drejtuesve fetar\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshijn\u00eb k\u00ebto mesazhe, t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb kaq n\u00eb harmoni me t\u00eb gjitha besimet, n\u00eb aktivitetet dhe n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien e tyre me publikun.<\/p>\n Po ndihmojm\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb sigurohemi q\u00eb djemt\u00eb dhe vajzat n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha vendet t\u00eb ken\u00eb mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb sigurt dhe t\u00eb barabart\u00eb p\u00ebr arsimin cil\u00ebsor, i cili u m\u00ebson atyre vler\u00ebn e brendshme t\u00eb \u00e7do personi.<\/p>\n Sekretarja Klinton e ka shnd\u00ebrruar k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje n\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi kryesore p\u00ebr politik\u00ebn e jashtme amerikane. Administrata Obama \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithashtu e p\u00ebrkushtuar q\u00eb t’i jap\u00eb fund dhun\u00ebs kund\u00ebr grave n\u00eb Shtetet e Bashkuara, vend n\u00eb t\u00eb cilin shum\u00eb gra ende keqtrajtohen dhe abuzohen.<\/p>\n Organizata joqeveritare shqiptare dhe aktor\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb kan\u00eb punuar shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb luftuar dhun\u00ebn ndaj grave dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb zhvilluar rrug\u00ebt p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u00e7uar p\u00ebrpara t\u00eb drejtat e grave n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb sferat e jet\u00ebs.<\/p>\n Grat\u00eb jan\u00eb \u00e7el\u00ebsi i p\u00ebrparimit dhe i begatis\u00eb n\u00eb shekullin e 21-t\u00eb. Kur ato anashkalohen dhe keqtrajtohen, njer\u00ebzimi nuk mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrparoj\u00eb. Kur u njihen t\u00eb drejtat e tyre dhe u lejohen shanse t\u00eb barabarta n\u00eb shkollim, kujdes mjek\u00ebsor, pun\u00ebsim dhe pjes\u00ebmarrje politike, ato ngren\u00eb lart familjet e tyre, komunitetet e tyre dhe kombet e tyre.<\/p>\n \u00cbsht\u00eb koha q\u00eb dh\u00ebnia fund dhun\u00ebs ndaj gruas t\u00eb b\u00ebhet p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ne.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Nga Xhon L. Uidhers, 27.11.2009 M\u00eb 28 shtator bota u zgjua me lajmet e sapoardhura p\u00ebr dhun\u00eb t\u00eb parr\u00ebfyeshme ushtruar ndaj grave. N\u00eb Guine, “beretat e kuqe,” garda e republik\u00ebs, kishte p\u00ebrdhunuar, n\u00ebn k\u00ebrc\u00ebnimin e arm\u00ebve – n\u00eb grup, gra t\u00eb moshave t\u00eb ndryshme, me nj\u00eb mizori t\u00eb atill\u00eb saq\u00eb ato q\u00eb nuk vdiq\u00ebn menj\u00ebher\u00eb, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n
\nAs niveli apo as q\u00ebllimi i k\u00ebsaj dhune nuk jan\u00eb di\u00e7ka e re.<\/p>\n
\nKjo dhun\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pandemi bot\u00ebrore. Ajo kap\u00ebrcen p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsin\u00eb etnike, rac\u00ebn, klas\u00ebn, fen\u00eb, nivelin arsimor dhe kufijt\u00eb nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtar\u00eb: i vetmi element i p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb viktimat p\u00ebrzgjidhen p\u00ebr shkak se jan\u00eb gra.<\/p>\n