{"id":3917,"date":"2015-07-02T07:11:14","date_gmt":"2015-07-02T06:11:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fjala.info\/?p=3917"},"modified":"2015-07-02T07:11:14","modified_gmt":"2015-07-02T06:11:14","slug":"qeni-emocional-shkodran-dhe-bishti-i-tij-racional","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fjala.info\/2009-2015\/qeni-emocional-shkodran-dhe-bishti-i-tij-racional\/","title":{"rendered":"Qeni emocional shkodran dhe bishti i tij racional"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\" Nga Gilman Bakalli<\/strong>, 01 Korrik 2015<\/em><\/p>\n

Pak teori\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aktualisht, ideja se zgjedhja (edhe zgjedhjet) \u00ebsht\u00eb akt intuitiv, g\u00ebzon popullaritet m\u00eb t\u00eb madh se kurr\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb. \u201cInteligjenca emocionale\u201d mbetet nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb ky\u00e7e e psikologjis\u00eb sociale dhe e komunikimit modern. N\u00eb dhjet\u00ebra eksperimente (edhe online), psikologu amerikan Marc Hauser i Universitetit t\u00eb Harvardit, p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb se si, n\u00eb situata dilemash, ne mb\u00ebshtetemi tek emocionet. Neurolog\u00eb t\u00eb shumt\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb shpjegojn\u00eb se impulsi i err\u00ebt i vullnetit t\u00eb emocioneve u paraprin reflektimeve t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijshme e t\u00eb kthjell\u00ebta.<\/p>\n

Mes idhtar\u00ebve t\u00eb flakt\u00eb t\u00eb ides\u00eb se emocionet u paraprijn\u00eb vendimeve racionale shk\u00eblqen nj\u00eb profesor i ri amerikan, Jonathan Haidt. Profesori i psikologjis\u00eb n\u00eb Virginia University shkroi n\u00eb vitin 2001 nj\u00eb ese me titull \u201cThe emotional dog and its rational tail<\/em>\u201d (\u201cQeni emocional dhe bishti i tij racional<\/em>\u201d). Teza e Haidt \u00ebsht\u00eb provokuese. Sipas tij, ne nuk kemi arsye apo argumente p\u00ebr veprimet apo pik\u00ebpamjet tona.<\/p>\n

\u00cbsht\u00eb komplet e anasjellta: ngaq\u00eb kemi disa bindje, q\u00ebndrime apo pik\u00ebpamje ndijimore (q\u00eb bazohen n\u00eb ndjesi tonat) ne k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb vazhdimisht disa argumente t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshme p\u00ebr t\u2019i p\u00ebrligjur ato. Me pak fjal\u00eb, kund\u00ebrshtar\u00ebt e abortit nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb se jan\u00eb kund\u00ebr abortit ngaq\u00eb jan\u00eb bindur nga argumentet e arsyeshme q\u00eb kan\u00eb lexuar apo d\u00ebgjuar.<\/p>\n

E v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb se ata k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb argumente pak a shum\u00eb t\u00eb arsyeshme, ngaq\u00eb jan\u00eb kund\u00ebr abortit. Ose p\u00ebr t\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb shembull akoma m\u00eb aktual: shkodran\u00ebt nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb se jan\u00eb t\u00eb djatht\u00eb, ngaq\u00eb kan\u00eb v\u00ebrtet arsye dhe argumente p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, por thjesht k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb argumente p\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebrtetuar se jan\u00eb t\u00eb djatht\u00eb, ngaq\u00eb jan\u00eb kund\u00ebr s\u00eb majt\u00ebs (t\u00eb cil\u00ebn konsiderojn\u00eb komuniste).<\/p>\n

P\u00ebr ta provuar tez\u00ebn e tij, Haidt analizon vlerat e zgjedh\u00ebsve amerikan\u00eb. Ai p\u00ebrpilon nj\u00eb list\u00eb vlerash dhe u k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb intervistuarve t\u00eb krijojn\u00eb nj\u00eb hierarki me k\u00ebto vlera. Cila vler\u00eb u dukej m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, cila m\u00eb me pak pesh\u00eb. Ata q\u00eb kishin th\u00ebn\u00eb se ishin \u201cliberal\u201d (n\u00eb kontekstin amerikan, \u201cmajtas\u201d) i rendit\u00ebn n\u00eb vendin m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb vlerat \u201cp\u00ebrkujdesje\u201d dhe \u201cndershm\u00ebri\u201d. Vlera t\u00eb tilla si \u201cbesnik\u00ebri\u201d, \u201ckrenari\u201d apo \u201drespekt\u201d zinin vend t\u00eb ul\u00ebt n\u00eb hierarki. Kurse ata q\u00eb e mbanin veten si \u201ckonservator\u00eb\u201d i rendit\u00ebn mjaft mir\u00eb vlerat \u201cbesnik\u00ebri\u201d, \u201ckrenari\u201d, por jo \u201cndershm\u00ebrin\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n

Kjo, bile, u radhit e fundit n\u00eb list\u00eb. Pra, sipas Haidt, ne ua p\u00ebrshtatim vlerat tona pik\u00ebpamjeve tona dhe jo anasjelltas. P\u00ebr ta konkretizuar k\u00ebt\u00eb me rastin e Shkodr\u00ebs: t\u00eb djatht\u00ebt n\u00eb Shkod\u00ebr, ngaq\u00eb e konsiderojn\u00eb veten t\u00eb djatht\u00eb e konservator\u00eb, e konsiderojn\u00eb veten automatikisht edhe m\u00eb \u201ct\u00eb ndersh\u00ebm\u201d e m\u00eb \u201ct\u00eb moralsh\u00ebm\u201d. Kurse t\u00eb majt\u00ebt, n\u00eb syt\u00eb e tyre jan\u00eb t\u00eb \u201cshthurur\u201d, \u201ct\u00eb p\u00ebrdal\u00eb\u201d, \u201ct\u00eb degjeneruar\u201d.<\/p>\n

Epitete t\u00eb tilla d\u00ebgjoje nga militant\u00ebt e PD-s\u00eb n\u00eb adres\u00eb t\u00eb kandidates s\u00eb majt\u00eb Keti Bazhdari, thjesht p\u00ebr faktin se kjo kandidonte p\u00ebr nj\u00eb forc\u00eb t\u00eb majt\u00eb. Haidt krijoi nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb shembujsh dhe u shtroi njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb kulturave t\u00eb ndryshme pyetjet e m\u00ebposhtme: \u201cA ju duket n\u00eb rregull, n\u00ebse v\u00ebllai b\u00ebn seks me motr\u00ebn, me kushtin q\u00eb t\u00eb dy kan\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr seks dhe q\u00eb, t\u00eb dy p\u00ebrdorin mjete parandaluese?\u201d \u201cA ju duket problematike, n\u00ebse dikush ushqehet me qenin e tij t\u00eb ngordhur?\u201d \u201c\u00c7\u2019mendim keni p\u00ebr dik\u00eb, q\u00eb fshin prapanic\u00ebn dhe pastron banj\u00ebn me flamurin e tij komb\u00ebtar?\u201d \u201c\u00c7\u2019ndjesi provoni, n\u00ebse dikush, para se ta haj\u00eb pul\u00ebn, e p\u00ebrdor at\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u masturbuar?\u201d<\/p>\n

E p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta e k\u00ebtyre shembujve \u00ebsht\u00eb se ato jan\u00eb krijuar n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, q\u00eb askush t\u00eb mos p\u00ebsoj\u00eb l\u00ebndime, askush t\u00eb mos keqtrajtohet dhe t\u00eb mos ket\u00eb viktima. E megjithat\u00eb, jam i bindur se kushdo q\u00eb i lexon shembuj t\u00eb till\u00eb irritohet p\u00ebr shkaqe t\u00eb ndryshme: Sikleti q\u00eb provojm\u00eb ndaj incestit \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i vjet\u00ebr dhe haset edhe n\u00eb gjitar\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb t\u00eb zhvilluar. Sikleti q\u00eb ndjejm\u00eb kur d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb se dikush ushqehet me qenin e tij, mund t\u00eb lidhet me faktin se kafsh\u00ebt sht\u00ebpiake i shohim pak a shum\u00eb si t\u00eb ishin kush\u00ebrinj t\u00eb larg\u00ebt. At\u00eb q\u00eb dikur e kemi dashur nuk mund ta ham\u00eb, apo jo? Kurse at\u00eb personin, i cili masturbon para pul\u00ebs s\u00eb tij, e konsiderojm\u00eb t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00eb psikik. Me sa duket, ekzistojn\u00eb \u201carsye emotive\u201d p\u00ebr ta refuzuar nj\u00eb veprim edhe kur nuk kemi t\u00eb l\u00ebnduar apo viktima.<\/p>\n

K\u00ebto \u201carsye emotive\u201d Haidt i quan intuita sociale. Pothuajse gjithmon\u00eb ne udh\u00ebhiqemi nga intuita dhe vendosim \u201cme fundin e barkut\u201d (duke u bazuar tek emocionet). E keqja e pushtetit t\u00eb intuit\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb se jemi shum\u00eb m\u00eb pak t\u00eb arsyesh\u00ebm se sa besojm\u00eb. Kurse e mira e saj konsiston n\u00eb faktin se edhe intuitat m\u00ebsohen: p\u00ebrmes konfirmimit apo zhg\u00ebnjimit dhe, para s\u00eb gjithash, nga ngacmimet dhe opinionet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve.<\/p>\n

Qeni emocional shkodran<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sjellja e votuesit shkodran, e cila reduktohet tek ajo shprehja popullore (sigurisht diskriminuese ndaj nj\u00eb komuniteti), sipas s\u00eb cil\u00ebs \u201cn\u00eb Shkod\u00ebr, edhe nji magjyp t\u00eb kandidoj\u00eb PD-ja, p\u00ebr t\u00eb do votojn\u00eb shkodran\u00ebt<\/em>\u201d, n\u00eb thelb, manifeston faktin se, tashm\u00eb votuesi ideal shkodran nuk e v\u00eb m\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb arsyen, por thjesht emocionin<\/strong>. Provoni t\u00eb bisedoni me nj\u00eb shkodran dhe ta ngacmoni n\u00eb lidhje me zgjedhjet politike. Dialogu do t\u00eb ket\u00eb pak a shum\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb model:<\/p>\n

\u201cp\u00ebr k\u00eb votove k\u00ebsaj radhe\u201d?
\n\u201c\u00e7a asht kjo pytje, un si shkodran i djatht\u00eb votoj dhe do votoj derisa t\u00eb vdes p\u00ebr Partin\u00eb Demokratike!\u201d
\n\u201cpo, si mundesh me ken kaq i bindun?\u201d
\n\u201cpo pse, si thu ti, me votu kta p\u00ebr komunistat e klyshat e tyne t\u00eb pamoralsh\u00ebm e t\u00eb degjenurum, a?\u201d
\n\u201cpo kush jan\u00eb komunistat dhe klyshat e tyne t\u00eb pamoralsh\u00ebm e t\u00eb degjenerum?\u201d
\n\u201ckto socialistat, pra!\u201d
\n\u201cpo kto jan\u00eb socialista, jo komunista!\u201d
\n\u201cmos ia fut kot, kto kan ken dhe vazhdojne me ken pjes\u00eb e nomenklatur\u00ebs s\u00eb kuqe dhe nuk munden me u transformu n\u00eb demokrat\u00eb!\u201d
\n\u201cpo edhe Berisha, pjes\u00eb e nomenklatur\u00ebs s\u00eb kuqe ka ken!\u201d
\n\u201cndoshta, por i ka luftu dhe i ka rr\u00ebzu n\u00eb 1990\u201d
\n\u201cpo pse beson ti, q\u00eb Kastriot Islami asht transformu n\u00eb demokrat, kurse ish-komunistave t\u00eb dikursh\u00ebm nuk ua pranon mund\u00ebsin\u00eb e transformimit n\u00eb socialist\u00eb? Mandej, Edi Rama as nuk ka ken e as nuk asht komunist\u201d!
\n\u201c\u00e7far\u00eb Edi Rame, mor, ai b\u00ebthq\u2026, a e shef me \u00e7far kriminelash rrin n\u00eb pushtet?\u201d
\n\u201cMe k\u00eb?\u201d
\n\u201cMe Ilir Met\u00ebn\u201d
\n\u201cPo a ndejti edhe Berisha me Ilir Met\u00ebn n\u00eb pushtet?\u201d
\nHeshtje.<\/p>\n

Si\u00e7 shihet qart\u00eb, ajo q\u00eb e dallon qartaz nj\u00eb votues shkodran nga pjesa tjet\u00ebr e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb fakti se shkodrani k\u00ebrkon ta p\u00ebrkthej\u00eb vot\u00ebn politike n\u00eb atribut t\u00eb tijin moral. Duke deklaruar vot\u00ebn e djatht\u00eb, ai n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb pavet\u00ebdijshme k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb vishet me vlerat q\u00eb lidhen me t\u00eb djatht\u00ebn dhe k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb shpallet publikisht si mbart\u00ebs i k\u00ebtyre vlerave (ndershm\u00ebri, besnik\u00ebri, respekt etj.). Vota \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb akt kulturor. Deri k\u00ebtu s\u2019ka asnj\u00eb problem. Por t\u00eb zbavit \u201cbishti racional\u201d shkodran, i cili k\u00ebrkon q\u00eb t\u00eb jap\u00eb nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht edhe iden\u00eb e votuesit racional, i cili ka nj\u00eb arsye t\u00eb fort\u00eb se pse voton t\u00eb djatht\u00ebn. Dhe cila \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja?<\/p>\n

Antikomunizmi tradicional dhe medemek \u201cshthurja morale\u201d q\u00eb karakterizoka t\u00eb majt\u00ebn. Pa provo t\u00eb p\u00ebrdor\u00ebsh arsyen dhe t\u2019i kujtosh nj\u00eb shkodrani t\u00eb flakt\u00eb ‘antikomunist’ se edhe m\u00ebnyra e tij e sjelljes \u00ebsht\u00eb 100% komuniste n\u00eb kuptimin q\u00eb, edhe komunizmi e vendoste partin\u00eb mbi individin dhe partia komuniste e diktatorit Hoxha pik\u00ebrisht k\u00ebt\u00eb k\u00ebrkonte prej nesh: t\u00eb votonim individin thjesht dhe vet\u00ebm sepse e kishte propozuar partia<\/em>. \u00cbsht\u00eb e kot\u00eb! Pa provo t\u00eb p\u00ebrdor\u00ebsh prap\u00eb arsyen dhe t\u2019i kujtosh nj\u00eb shkodrani ‘antikomunist’ t\u00eb flakt\u00eb se edhe d\u00ebshira e tij, p\u00ebr ta uniformizuar t\u00eb gjith\u00eb qytetin si qytet t\u00eb djatht\u00eb (\u201cbastion i s\u00eb djatht\u00ebs\u201d) \u00ebsht\u00eb po aq komuniste sa d\u00ebshira e diktatorit Hoxha p\u00ebr nj\u00eb bot\u00eb internacionale komuniste. Po aq komuniste sa edhe d\u00ebshira e Berish\u00ebs p\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u201cShqip\u00ebri blu\u201d, po aq komuniste sa edhe d\u00ebshira e Ram\u00ebs p\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u201cShqip\u00ebri mavi\u201d.<\/p>\n

Mesa duket, d\u00ebshira e shkodran\u00ebve p\u00ebr t\u2019u identifikuar me disa vlera, t\u00eb cilat arbitrarisht e konvencionalisht besojm\u00eb se lidhen me ca ideologji t\u00eb caktuara, nuk i lejon t\u00eb shohin nj\u00eb fakt krejt t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb. Se gjat\u00eb k\u00ebtyre 25 viteve ende nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ndar\u00eb shapi nga sheqeri, porse vazhdojm\u00eb qeverisim e t\u00eb punojm\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb vark\u00eb: p\u00ebrndjek\u00ebs e t\u00eb p\u00ebrndjekur, persekutor\u00eb e viktima, bij persekutor\u00ebsh e bij viktimash. Jan\u00eb verbuar kaq fort nga d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t\u2019u paraqitur si qytet mbart\u00ebs i vlerave t\u00eb patjet\u00ebrsueshme t\u00eb qytet\u00ebrimit, saq\u00eb nuk arrijn\u00eb ta shohin se n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha institucionet lokale pa p\u00ebrjashtim mielli nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ndar\u00eb nga krundet.<\/p>\n

Shkodran\u00ebt jan\u00eb t\u00eb lir\u00eb t\u00eb zgjedhin k\u00eb t\u00eb duan e si t\u00eb duan e me \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb duan. Ama mos t\u00eb b\u00ebhen m\u00eb qesharak\u00eb duke k\u00ebrkuar t\u2019i japin vot\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre karakter heroik e opozitar, e t\u00eb mos shfaqen si shp\u00ebtimtar\u00eb t\u00eb vlerave t\u00eb demokracis\u00eb. T\u2019i l\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00ebnjan\u00eb arsyet se pse e kan\u00eb votuar PD-n\u00eb dhe t\u00eb pranojn\u00eb se jan\u00eb, edhe ata si t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, si \u201cqeni emocional dhe bishti i tij racional\u201d i psikologut amerikan Haidt. Jan\u00eb duke votuar thjesht me \u201cfundin e barkut\u201d. Llamb\u00ebn e kuqe t\u00eb arsyes nuk e duan. Kan\u00eb mb\u00ebrritur n\u00eb nj\u00eb pik\u00eb, q\u00eb u duket edhe ajo, socialiste!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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