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D\u00ebshmi p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn vetjake… nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebria e deri m\u00eb sot. Lideri i t\u00eb majt\u00ebve flet me marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet me n\u00ebn\u00ebn, baban\u00eb, v\u00ebllan\u00eb, t\u00eb birin… dhe grat\u00eb q\u00eb ka pasur n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij… p\u00ebr artin, sportin, politik\u00ebn… <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Intervistoi Arta Marku<\/strong>, Psikologjia<\/em><\/p>\n Edi Rama… Mu shfaq n\u00eb kujtes\u00eb, vite t\u00eb shkuara kur refuzoi nj\u00eb \u00e7mim t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm akorduar nga juria e konkursit komb\u00ebtar Onufri. Nuk desha ta krahasoj as me Startin e as me Past\u00ebrnakun. Por sidoqoft\u00eb ishte, si edhe ata, pavar\u00ebsisht shum\u00eb\u00e7kaje, refuzues i nj\u00eb \u00e7mimi. Nuk qe as i vetmi n\u00eb rastin konkret, qe nj\u00ebri prej t\u00eb treve, por sepse desha t\u00eb besoj se qe nxit\u00ebsi. Jo p\u00ebr natyr\u00ebn protagoniste, sepse protagonizmin mund ta b\u00ebsh duke e merituar nj\u00eb \u00e7mim, as p\u00ebr prirjen narciziste, sepse besoj t\u00eb jet\u00eb tipar artist\u00ebsh ndaj s\u2019mund ta diferencoj\u00eb. M\u00eb shum\u00eb se kaq, e interpretova me natyr\u00ebn e tij rebele e sidomos, me prirjen e theksuar drejt liris\u00eb, q\u00eb kushedi se sa her\u00eb me par\u00eb e kish shfaqur e tashm\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ia njihnin.<\/p>\n M\u00eb dol\u00ebn nga plasat e kujtes\u00ebs, ekspozitat e tij, me titujt provokues si \u201cVagina diskrete\u201d apo \u201cPedikyr\u201d q\u00eb pat dekoruar muret e nj\u00eb galerie t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, me nj\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb elegante fem\u00ebrore… Mu shfaq n\u00eb kujtes\u00eb, ekstravagant, kur pasi la Parisin u rikthye n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb drejtimin e ministris\u00eb s\u00eb kultur\u00ebs. Jo thjesht ekstravaganca e jashtme, veshja atipike, nj\u00eb vath n\u00eb vesh (q\u00eb,-si\u00e7 do t\u00eb lexoja n\u00eb nj\u00eb poezi t\u00eb Mimoza Ahmetit kushtuar tij – \u201c di\u00e7 ia nxit kot\u00ebsis\u00eb kuptimin\u201d), unaza e madhe dhe e argjendt\u00eb t\u00eb gisht… e jo pak detaje t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb pamjes s\u00eb jashtme, q\u00eb di\u00e7 ia theksonte shtatlart\u00ebsia e pazakont\u00eb, q\u00eb qysh n\u00eb lindje, per\u00ebndia a natyra ia kish dh\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb dallohet… Konceptet e tij t\u00eb pakrahasueshme asokohe, m\u00ebnyra e guximshme e t\u00eb shprehurit t\u00eb gj\u00ebrave, q\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb dik\u00eb edhe e l\u00ebndonin (!?), idet\u00eb dhe vizioni e diferencuan, si\u00e7 jo vet\u00ebm un\u00eb gjykova.<\/p>\n E panevojshme t\u00eb g\u00ebrmoj n\u00eb kujtes\u00eb p\u00ebr ta par\u00eb n\u00eb ecejaket e tij aktuale, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb u m\u00ebsuan ta shohin si politikan dhe lider, ndryshe nga m\u00eb par\u00eb, mir\u00ebfilli nj\u00eb artist i pak\u00ebnaqur deri n\u00eb fund.<\/p>\n Por \u00e7\u2019ka p\u00ebrtej k\u00ebsaj? Cila \u00ebsht\u00eb jeta e Edi Ram\u00ebs, me t\u00eb njohurat e dhe t\u00eb panjohurat e tij nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebria e deri m\u00eb tash? Ai vet\u00eb rr\u00ebfen duke shpjeguar shum\u00eb\u00e7ka… mbi protagonizmin dhe narcizizmin, mbi lirin\u00eb dhe rebelizmin, p\u00ebr n\u00ebn\u00ebn dhe grat\u00eb e tjera, p\u00ebr baban\u00eb dhe v\u00ebllan\u00eb e vet\u00ebm, p\u00ebr Gregorin, padyshim… p\u00ebr artin dhe politik\u00ebn, p\u00ebr stacionet n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat \u00ebsht\u00eb ndalur dhe t\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen…<\/p>\n Krijohet p\u00ebrshtypja se p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb lider \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme nj\u00eb prirje e individit p\u00ebr protagoniz\u00ebm. Sa natyr\u00eb protagoniste jeni ju?<\/em><\/p>\n M\u00eb duket nj\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypje e drejt\u00eb. S\u2019shoh se mund t\u00eb ekzistoj\u00eb nj\u00eb lider, n\u00eb \u00e7far\u00ebdo fushe e i \u00e7far\u00ebdo p\u00ebrmase, pa nj\u00eb prirje t\u00eb caktuar protagonizmi. As un\u00eb s\u2019b\u00ebj p\u00ebrjashtim. S\u2019mund rri rehat n\u00eb asnj\u00eb rrethan\u00eb kur ka vend p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb pozicion nd\u00ebrmjet k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrimesh t\u00eb ndryshme, qoft\u00eb edhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb bised\u00eb krejt e relaksuar miqsh. Kam qen\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb k\u00ebshtu.<\/p>\n Sakaq nj\u00eb artist ka prirjen narciziste. N\u00eb rastin tuaj, sado q\u00eb nuk keni artin aktivitet thelb\u00ebsor t\u00eb jet\u00ebs suaj (s\u00eb paku tani p\u00ebr tani) sidoqoft\u00eb s\u2019mund t\u00eb shp\u00ebrfillet artisti q\u00eb keni brenda vetes: A jeni n\u00eb fakt narcizist?<\/p>\n S\u2019e di, mbase gjithkush \u00ebsht\u00eb ngapak. Por ndryshe nga \u00e7\u2019mund t\u00eb shihet s\u00eb largu apo edhe t\u00eb duket s\u00eb af\u00ebrmi, un\u00eb nuk e kam t\u00eb leht\u00eb me veten. Nuk e teproj po t\u00eb them se nuk njoh kritik m\u00eb t\u00eb pak\u00ebnaqur ndaj meje sesa vetvetja.<\/p>\n A ju mungon jeta prej artisti? A ju mungon studioja e piktorit? Ekspozitat?<\/em><\/p>\n \u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb se kam nd\u00ebrruar jet\u00eb kur kam kap\u00ebrcyer pragun e politik\u00ebs aktive. Por \u00ebsht\u00eb po kaq e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb se arti ka vijuar t\u00eb mbetet pjes\u00eb e m\u00ebnyr\u00ebs sime t\u00eb t\u00eb parit e t\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuarit t\u00eb gj\u00ebrave, qoft\u00eb edhe t\u00eb atyre m\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebmtuarave q\u00eb jeta politike shqiptare t\u2019i ve p\u00ebrpara pa asnj\u00eb kursim. T\u00eb vizatuarit, t\u00eb ngjyrosurit, t\u00eb krijuarit e formave e t\u00eb hap\u00ebsirave nuk ka ndalur s\u00eb qeni pjes\u00eb e p\u00ebrditshm\u00ebris\u00eb sime. Mbi letrat e tavolin\u00ebs s\u00eb zyr\u00ebs, ku ka lindur edhe nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr n\u00eb bashk\u00ebpunim me Anri Sal\u00ebn.<\/p>\n Megjithat\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigja e drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb p\u00ebr pyetjen tuaj \u00ebsht\u00eb: po, ndodh shpesh t\u00eb m\u00eb mungoj\u00eb jeta mir\u00ebfilli me artin, studion, ngjarjet artistike. Por le t\u00eb themi se m\u00eb mungon, nj\u00eblloj si\u00e7 na mungojn\u00eb pushimet n\u00eb det e diell gjat\u00eb dimrit, e dim\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb vijn\u00eb me t\u00eb nd\u00ebrruar stin\u00ebt. Politika p\u00ebr mua s\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb karriera q\u00eb do t\u00eb m\u00eb \u00e7oj\u00eb drejt pensionit, po vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb stin\u00eb e jet\u00ebs sime. T\u00eb cil\u00ebn m\u00eb p\u00eblqen ta parashoh t\u00eb k\u00ebmbehet p\u00ebrs\u00ebri me artin, krijimtarin\u00eb, letrat e ngjyrosura a t\u00eb shkruara a ku di un\u00eb me se tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb bot\u00ebn e pafundme t\u00eb parafytyrimeve e akteve krijuese\u2026<\/p>\n Rasti juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb prej rasteve jo t\u00eb pakta kur politikani vjen nga fusha e artit. \u00c7far\u00eb paraleleje hiqni me t\u00eb tjer\u00eb \u201csiv\u00ebllez\u00ebr\u201d? A gjeni pika kontakti, pavar\u00ebsisht th\u00ebnies se \u201c\u00e7do krahasim \u00e7alon\u201d?<\/em><\/p>\n Nuk jan\u00eb n\u00eb fakt raste t\u00eb shumta. As p\u00ebrfundime t\u00eb nj\u00ebjta. Ka pasur histori suksesi e histori d\u00ebshtimesh. Nuk besoj se mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet ndonj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsim. E imja \u00ebsht\u00eb h\u00ebp\u00ebrh\u00eb nj\u00eb histori q\u00eb vazhdon.<\/p>\n \u201cUn\u00eb s\u2019kam paraardh\u00ebs\u201d, keni th\u00ebn\u00eb vite m\u00eb par\u00eb kur lat\u00eb Parisin dhe studion e piktorit q\u00eb kishit atje p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb numri nj\u00eb i ministris\u00eb s\u00eb kultur\u00ebs n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. I q\u00ebndroni ende nj\u00eb komenti t\u00eb till\u00eb? A mund t\u00eb hyni n\u00eb detaje lidhur me k\u00ebt\u00eb th\u00ebnie qoft\u00eb kjo edhe nj\u00eb koncept q\u00eb i takon s\u00eb shkuar\u00ebs…<\/p>\n Duhet t\u00eb kem pasur parasysh ndryshimin radikal mes \u00e7ka gjeta e \u00e7ka d\u00ebshiroja t\u00eb sillja p\u00ebrmes rolit q\u00eb m\u2019u k\u00ebrkua asokohe. Dhe nuk besoj se i bie n\u00eb qaf\u00eb s\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs n\u00ebse them se, par\u00eb nga distanca e duzin\u00ebs s\u00eb viteve q\u00eb kan\u00eb kaluar, munda t\u2019i jap Ministris\u00eb s\u00eb Kultur\u00ebs nj\u00eb pamje e pesh\u00eb q\u00eb kurr\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb s\u2019e kishte pasur. Edhe pse largimi im i shpejt\u00eb prej aty, p\u00ebr t\u00eb nisur sfid\u00ebn e jasht\u00ebzakonshme t\u00eb transformimit t\u00eb kryeqytetit, nuk e ndihmoi \u00e7uarjen p\u00ebrpara t\u00eb reformave radikale q\u00eb piketuam p\u00ebr institucionet e kultur\u00ebs shqiptare e n\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00ebsi mir\u00ebqeverisjen e saj, prap\u00ebseprap\u00eb ajo ministri ruajti edhe p\u00ebr disa vite nj\u00eb profil q\u00eb gjithsesi s\u2019e kishte pasur m\u00eb par\u00eb. T\u00eb tjerat i takojn\u00eb nj\u00eb bisede tjet\u00ebr\u2026<\/p>\n Arti \u2013 sporti \u2013 politika: P\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjedhur nj\u00eb duhet braktisur tjetra? (Kujtoj sakaq ekspozit\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb jo shum\u00eb viteve m\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb Galerin\u00eb Komb\u00ebtare, kur ishit kryetar bashkie – sidoqoft\u00eb e vetmja dalje publike si artist gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebtyre viteve, e lidhur edhe pse jo thell\u00ebsisht me tryez\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb pun\u00ebs s\u00eb kryebashkiakut).<\/em><\/p>\n Faleminderit q\u00eb e kujtoni, m\u00eb jep shije t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Sportin e kam l\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment kur si sportist sapo nisa t\u00eb krijoj vler\u00eb, pas shum\u00eb viteve st\u00ebrvitje e p\u00ebrkushtim. Ika nga fusha e basketbollit mu n\u00eb mes t\u00eb vitit 1989, pas ndeshjeve n\u00eb nj\u00eb grup eliminator p\u00ebr kampionatin evropian n\u00eb Gjermani, ku pata fatin t\u00eb jem edhe un\u00eb me ekipin komb\u00ebtar, mes lojtar\u00ebsh t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj p\u00ebr Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb e miqsh t\u00eb dashur q\u00eb i kujtoj me shum\u00eb nostalgji e i takoj gjithnj\u00eb me nj\u00eb mall t\u00eb posa\u00e7\u00ebm – qoft\u00eb ata q\u00eb jetojn\u00eb edhe sot n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, qoft\u00eb ata q\u00eb kan\u00eb zgjedhur t\u00eb jetojn\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr bot\u00eb. E lash\u00eb sportin i mb\u00ebrthyer nga nj\u00eb ndjesi e fort\u00eb faji p\u00ebr koh\u00ebn e madhe q\u00eb i merrja artit p\u00ebr shkakun e angazhimit t\u00eb p\u00ebrditsh\u00ebm me topin ngjyr\u00eb portokalli.<\/p>\n Por edhe me nj\u00eb parandjenj\u00eb shum\u00eb ndikuese tek un\u00eb, q\u00eb lidhej me \u00e7ka do t\u00eb ndodhte m\u00eb pas n\u00eb Institutin e Lart\u00eb t\u00eb Arteve. E kam fjal\u00ebn p\u00ebr fillimin e atyre turbullirave q\u00eb i paraprin\u00eb ndryshimeve demokratike t\u00eb nj\u00eb viti e ca m\u00eb von\u00eb, n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat nj\u00eb grup tek artet u p\u00ebrshi me shum\u00eb guxim e d\u00ebshir\u00eb qysh n\u00eb krye t\u00eb her\u00ebs. Nejse, po u jap k\u00ebtu edhe nj\u00eb lajm q\u00eb s\u2019ka mb\u00ebrritur ende n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 ekspozit\u00ebs q\u00eb ju p\u00ebrmend\u00ebt, kam b\u00ebr\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr s\u00eb fundmi. N\u00eb Berlin, korrikun e saposhkuar, n\u00eb kuadrin e Bienales s\u00eb Berlinit. Nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr aventur\u00eb e p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt me Anri Sal\u00ebn. P\u00ebrs\u00ebri me vizatimet e ngjyrat e dit\u00ebve t\u00eb mia t\u00eb pun\u00ebs. Por k\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb edhe me p\u00ebrfshirjen e disa t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve n\u00eb nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb dialog\u00ebsh mbi artin, historin\u00eb e tij, filozofin\u00eb e politik\u00ebn. Si\u00e7 e shihni korsia e emergjenc\u00ebs p\u00ebr artin \u00ebsht\u00eb e pandar\u00eb nga rruga ime e politik\u00ebs.<\/p>\n \u00c7far\u00eb ka josh\u00ebse politika q\u00eb e b\u00ebn nj\u00eb artist t\u00eb heq\u00eb dor\u00eb nga t\u00eb qenit mir\u00ebfilli artist? A \u00ebsht\u00eb joshja e politik\u00ebs m\u00eb e madhe se joshja e artit?<\/em><\/p>\n P\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsimet e p\u00ebrkufizimet e k\u00ebsaj natyre m\u00eb duken krejt\u00ebsisht t\u00eb pamundura. Un\u00eb mund t\u00eb flas thjesht p\u00ebr eksperienc\u00ebn time, por s\u2019besoj se mund t\u00eb gjendet dikush q\u00eb t\u2019i p\u00ebrcaktoj\u00eb k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra n\u00eb form\u00ebn e p\u00ebrgjigjeve t\u00eb prera. Ajo q\u00eb josh me format, shfaqjet, momentet e saj t\u00eb paparashikueshme, \u00ebsht\u00eb jeta. E cila p\u00ebr mua, ashtu si p\u00ebr shum\u00eb shqiptar\u00eb q\u00eb jetuan koh\u00ebn e ndryshimit t\u00eb mahnitsh\u00ebm t\u00eb sistemeve, u nd\u00ebrthur n\u00eb t\u00eb atill\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb i nd\u00ebrkalli bashk\u00eb gj\u00ebra q\u00eb normalisht puqen fort rrall\u00eb me nj\u00ebra-tjetr\u00ebn. N\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb tjet\u00ebr e kam t\u00eb pamundur ta parafytyroj se mund t\u00eb lija artin p\u00ebr t\u2019u angazhuar t\u00ebr\u00ebsisht me politik\u00ebn.<\/p>\n Ashtu si\u00e7 nuk besoj se do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb joshesha nga nj\u00eb angazhim si kryetar bashkie n\u00eb nj\u00eb qytet normal evropian q\u00eb nuk e ka magnetin e sfid\u00ebs s\u00eb transformimit t\u00eb Tiran\u00ebs s\u00eb vitit 2000. Apo nuk ma ha mendja se do t\u00eb kuturisesha t\u00eb jepesha i t\u00ebri pas drejtimit e reformimit t\u00eb nj\u00eb partie, n\u00eb kushtet kur gj\u00ebrat n\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00ebsi do t\u00eb qen\u00eb ndryshe n\u00eb vendin ku jetoj dhe k\u00ebshtu me radh\u00eb. Me pak fjal\u00eb s\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb arti apo politika n\u00eb vetvete q\u00eb e p\u00ebrcaktojn\u00eb nj\u00eb zgjedhje a nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, p\u00ebr t\u2019u marr\u00eb me nj\u00ebr\u00ebn a me tjetr\u00ebn, por \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra sesi jeta e ka vendosur p\u00ebrpara meje k\u00ebt\u00eb dilem\u00eb, apo joshje po t\u00eb doni ta quani, mes nj\u00ebr\u00ebs e tjetr\u00ebs.<\/p>\n Lider n\u00eb politik\u00eb (n\u00ebnkupto lider n\u00eb nj\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00eb t\u00eb konsiderueshme) a p\u00ebrkthehet automatikisht n\u00eb lider edhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie?<\/em><\/p>\n Absolutisht jo. Dhe lejom\u00ebni t\u2019ju them se p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb historia ka plot raste q\u00eb provojn\u00eb se jo vet\u00ebm s\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebshtu, po mbase, p\u00ebrkundrazi, t\u00eb k\u00ebrkuarit e lidershipit n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie, \u00ebsht\u00eb munges\u00eb e mund\u00ebsis\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb lider n\u00eb \u00e7far\u00ebdoqoft\u00eb jasht\u00eb saj!<\/p>\n M\u00eb konkretisht cili jeni ju n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie n\u00eb \u00e7ift? A jeni lideri edhe aty apo preferoni q\u00eb s\u00eb paku n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast t\u2019ia dor\u00ebzoni \u00e7el\u00ebsat partneres?<\/em><\/p>\n M\u00eb duket se nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjes sapo e dhash\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrsa n\u00eb \u00e7ift m\u00eb t\u00ebrheq p\u00ebrputhshm\u00ebria, e kuptuar si kompatibilitet mes t\u00eb ndryshmish jo si ngjashm\u00ebri mes t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebsh. Dhe m\u00eb mban kompliciteti, n\u00eb nj\u00eb kuptim t\u00eb bukur q\u00eb n\u00eb shqip s\u2019jam i zoti t\u2019ia gjej k\u00ebsaj fjale, nj\u00eb lloj shkalle e posa\u00e7me nd\u00ebrveprimi sa racional aq edhe misterioz me nj\u00eb grua.<\/p>\n \u00c7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr ju gruaja (seksi i dyt\u00eb)? Si duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen tuaj?<\/em><\/p>\n \u201cSeksi i dyt\u00eb\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb titulli i nj\u00eb libri ku Simone de Beauvoir-i e hedh posht\u00eb me plot t\u00eb drejt\u00eb nocionin e seksit t\u00eb dyt\u00eb, si nj\u00eb nocion diskriminues. Prandaj lejom\u00ebni dashamir\u00ebsisht t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorim thjesht nocionin seksi tjet\u00ebr. Ushtrim i pamundur p\u00ebr mua t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbledh n\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00ebn e kufizuar t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj bisede kuptimin tim p\u00ebr gruan, gjithsesi s\u2019do ishte aspak e tep\u00ebrt t\u00eb thosha se p\u00ebr mua jeta pa gruan, e kjo jo vet\u00ebm n\u00eb sensin e \u201cseksit tjet\u00ebr\u201d, s\u2019do kishte as mund\u00ebsi as kuptim. Por nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht m\u00eb ngjan e kot\u00eb \u00e7do p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrkufizuar gruan q\u00eb t\u00ebrheq v\u00ebmendjen time, p\u00ebr t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat arsye q\u00eb s\u2019mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrkufizojm\u00eb se si duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb njeriu q\u00eb t\u00ebrheq v\u00ebmendjen ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n Lidhjet tuaja sakaq kan\u00eb pasur t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb me gra t\u00eb bukura: Sa e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr ju bukuria tek nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr? N\u00eb \u00e7\u2019raport duhet t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb tek ajo bukuria dhe inteligjenca? A mund t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb si vler\u00eb nj\u00ebra pa pretenduar tjetr\u00ebn?<\/em><\/p>\n Kam pasur fatin e madh q\u00eb sa kam hapur syt\u00eb m\u00eb kan\u00eb pritur n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb dy gra t\u00eb bukura, n\u00ebna e gjyshja ime. T\u00eb cilat n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e viteve q\u00eb ik\u00ebn m\u00eb m\u00ebsuan se bukuria tek gruaja q\u00ebndron p\u00ebrtej klisheve q\u00eb kemi p\u00ebr t\u00eb, p\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri konsumi ku imazhi fem\u00ebror mbetet ndoshta materiali kryesor. Bukuria fem\u00ebrore t\u00ebrheq syt\u00eb e \u00e7do burri, por inteligjenca dhe m\u00ebnyra e t\u00eb sjellurit, b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb bukur \u00e7do grua. Kur u nda nga jeta, p\u00ebrtej t\u00eb n\u00ebnt\u00ebdhjetave, gjyshja ime ishte ende nj\u00eb grua e bukur.<\/p>\n Cila ka qen\u00eb dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia me n\u00ebn\u00ebn tuaj?<\/em><\/p>\n N\u00eb thelb ka qen\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb ajo q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb. N\u00eb form\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb, gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb, shprehje e vet\u00ebdijes s\u00eb koh\u00ebs q\u00eb ik\u00ebn, duke shenjuar vitet n\u00eb qenien e saj dhe duke ma b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebrdit\u00eb e m\u00eb t\u00eb nevojshme shprehjen e dashuris\u00eb e t\u00eb kujdesit, p\u00ebr njeriun q\u00eb m\u00eb m\u00ebsoi t\u2019i dua ata q\u00eb dua, pa u kursyer e as llogaritur \u00e7far\u00eb e sa \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb kthehet n\u00eb k\u00ebmbim t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb.<\/p>\n Le t\u00eb flasim pak p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien at\u00eb-bir, ju n\u00eb pozicionin e djalit p\u00ebrball\u00eb babait tuaj\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n Im at\u00eb m\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb privilegj q\u00eb, p\u00ebr shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb e asaj kohe kur un\u00eb jam rritur n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt, ka qen\u00eb besoj di\u00e7ka fort e rrall\u00eb. Ai kurr\u00eb nuk m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb imponuar me autoritetin at\u00ebror. Qysh n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb e hershme m\u00eb ka trajtuar si t\u00eb rritur, duke m\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb argumente p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb k\u00ebrkohej t\u00eb b\u00ebja dhe duke d\u00ebgjuar me durim \u00e7do kund\u00ebrshti. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa djali p\u00ebrball\u00eb babait tim, fal\u00eb babait tim un\u00eb jam ndjer\u00eb q\u00eb i vog\u00ebl nj\u00eb njeri i lir\u00eb p\u00ebrball\u00eb autoritetit t\u00eb tim eti. Kjo p\u00ebrcaktoi edhe tiparet e m\u00ebvonshme t\u00eb natyr\u00ebs sime kund\u00ebrshtuese ndaj \u00e7do autoriteti e statukuoje, e cila hapi vijim\u00ebsisht probleme p\u00ebr mjediset e shkoll\u00ebs e t\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha pun\u00ebve t\u00eb mia m\u00eb pas, duke m\u00eb krijuar t\u00ebr\u00eb ato telashet e \u00ebmbla, pa t\u00eb cilat jeta do m\u00eb dukej nj\u00eb m\u00ebrzi e pap\u00ebrballueshme.<\/p>\n Por duke folur p\u00ebr tim at\u00eb kam d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb ndaj me ju at\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb vjen gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shpesh si cop\u00ebza e par\u00eb e filmit q\u00eb lidhet me kujtimin e tij: Dora e madhe q\u00eb mb\u00ebshtillte dor\u00ebn time t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, teksa kalonim t\u00eb diel\u00ebn plot diell m\u00ebngjesi ur\u00ebn e Vasil Shantos, ku rrinte karroca e akulloreshit\u00ebsit. M\u00eb ishte th\u00ebn\u00eb prej prind\u00ebrve q\u00eb kurr\u00eb t\u00eb mos k\u00ebrkoja gj\u00eb, gj\u00ebja q\u00eb k\u00ebrkoja nuk m\u00eb jepej. Ajo ur\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb nga pikat ku sprovohej durimi p\u00ebrball\u00eb tundimit p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar akulloren me goj\u00ebn l\u00ebng. E teksa kafshoja gjuh\u00ebn duke ngadal\u00ebsuar q\u00ebllimisht hapin, prisja me sy gjysm\u00eb t\u00eb mbyllur q\u00eb, nga lart\u00ebsia, t\u00eb m\u00eb vinte z\u00ebri i tim eti: A ke d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb marrim nj\u00eb akullore? Gj\u00eb q\u00eb sigurisht her\u00eb ndodhte e her\u00eb jo, duke b\u00ebr\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb vend t\u00eb akullores t\u00eb merrja nj\u00eb m\u00ebsim, vler\u00ebn e t\u00eb cilit do ta \u00e7moja shum\u00eb vite m\u00eb von\u00eb dhe, n\u00eb stacione e kushte t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, do t\u2019ia kaloja djalit tim\u2026<\/p>\n Ndodh shpesh q\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb jan\u00eb refuzues ndaj prind\u00ebrve. Me koh\u00eb kjo gj\u00eb ndryshon. Ndryshojn\u00eb k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrimet prej nga shihen prind\u00ebrit me kalimin e viteve\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n Duke m\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb lir\u00eb n\u00eb zgjedhjet e mia, prind\u00ebrit, posa\u00e7\u00ebrisht im at\u00eb, mor\u00ebn p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr n\u00eb fakt belan\u00eb e madhe t\u00eb t\u00eb pasurit n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb \u201cshpirtit t\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtimit\u201d si\u00e7 m\u00eb quante ime m\u00eb. T\u00eb mos harrojm\u00eb, flasim p\u00ebr koh\u00ebn e diktatur\u00ebs e t\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebrie shum\u00eb t\u00eb ngrir\u00eb brenda kufijsh t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb ku \u00e7do k\u00ebrcitje, sot e pap\u00ebrfillshme n\u00eb bised\u00eb, asokohe kishte efektin e nj\u00eb bombe! Dhe n\u00eb nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb un\u00eb isha n\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb s\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebs fush\u00eb ku gjendej edhe im at\u00eb, artit, q\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ishte sh\u00ebrbim ndaj kauz\u00ebs s\u00eb gabuar ku besoi ndershm\u00ebrisht, kurse p\u00ebr mua u b\u00eb arsyeja p\u00ebr ta neveritur me t\u00eb gjith\u00eb fuqin\u00eb e shpirtit diktatur\u00ebn. Por nuk m\u2019u desh koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar se kjo dasi e pakap\u00ebrcyeshme, q\u00eb madje thellohej me zhytjen time n\u00eb literatur\u00ebn e ndaluar e me degradimin n\u00eb syt\u00eb e mi t\u00eb ngrehin\u00ebs s\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb s\u00eb mbyllur ku jetonim t\u00eb ky\u00e7ur si n\u00eb burg, ishte nj\u00eb arsye m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i qen\u00eb mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebs prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb mi q\u00eb kurr\u00eb nuk e ushtruan autoritetin e tyre si censur\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00ebndrrat e mendimet e mia.<\/p>\n P\u00ebr t\u00eb q\u00ebndruar n\u00eb nj\u00eb aspekt t\u00eb vet\u00ebm: A mendoni se zgjedhja juaj p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb n\u00eb bot\u00ebn e artit (e m\u00eb pas pse jo edhe n\u00eb politik\u00eb) ka ndodhur edhe fal\u00eb mjedisit n\u00eb t\u00eb cilin jeni rritur? Sa ndikues ose p\u00ebrcaktues p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen e njeriut \u00ebsht\u00eb mjedisi ku lind e rritet?<\/em><\/p>\n Si\u00e7 ju thash\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb un\u00eb jam lindur e rritur n\u00eb nj\u00eb mjedis familjar shum\u00eb stimulues p\u00ebr individualitetin e personalitetin tim. Q\u00eb sigurisht, bashk\u00eb me dhuntit\u00eb e natyr\u00ebs, ka ndikuar shum\u00eb ndjesh\u00ebm n\u00eb zgjedhjet e mia, qoft\u00eb si ushqim p\u00ebr prirjen e lindur artistike, qoft\u00eb si nxitje p\u00ebr t\u2019u rebeluar ndaj statukuos\u00eb. M\u00eb von\u00eb besoj se kjo ndikoi edhe n\u00eb p\u00ebrzierjen time me politik\u00ebn.<\/p>\n Tashm\u00eb ju si baba: A gjeni pika p\u00ebrkimi mes m\u00ebnyr\u00ebs sesi funksionon marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia juaj me djalin tuaj me m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn sesi ka funksionuar marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia juaj me baban\u00eb?<\/em><\/p>\n Ka dallime t\u00eb qen\u00ebsishme duke nisur nga vet\u00eb fakti se un\u00eb u rrita n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje tradicionale, me v\u00ebllan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, prind\u00ebrit e madje edhe me gjysh\u00ebrit n\u00ebn t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn \u00e7ati, kurse im bir u rrit me prind\u00ebrit t\u00eb ndar\u00eb dhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb shoq\u00ebrore kat\u00ebrcip\u00ebrisht tjet\u00ebr nga ajo e shkoll\u00ebs s\u00eb disiplinuar, e televizorit bardhezi me zhurmues e me anten\u00eb nd\u00ebn\u00eb krevat, librave t\u00eb ndaluar, qejfeve t\u00eb kufizuara brenda marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniesh sociale t\u00eb st\u00ebrkontrolluara e me radh\u00eb\u2026<\/p>\n Por padyshim figura liberale e tim eti dhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia e tij me mua kan\u00eb luajtur nj\u00eb rol p\u00ebrcaktues n\u00eb natyr\u00ebn e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve q\u00eb kam krijuar me tim bir. Ndoshta edhe p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb rrethanave t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta q\u00eb parathash\u00eb, un\u00eb kam zgjedhur t\u00eb jem babai m\u00eb liberal n\u00eb bot\u00eb. I kam dh\u00ebn\u00eb Gregut t\u00eb gjith\u00eb lirin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb menduar, vendosur e gabuar, pasi i kam b\u00ebr\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb t\u00eb qart\u00eb me durim pik\u00ebpamjen time. K\u00ebto dit\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebhet nj\u00ebzet vje\u00e7, nuk druaj t\u00eb them se ai sot \u00ebsht\u00eb djali q\u00eb kam \u00ebnd\u00ebrruar t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh\u00eb.<\/p>\n A keni pengje lidhur me marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien me djalin tuaj?<\/em><\/p>\n Duke e par\u00eb sot k\u00ebshtu si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb, si mendon, si shkruan, si reflekton ndaj gj\u00ebrave q\u00eb sheh e lexon dhe, mbi t\u00eb gjitha, si sillet me njer\u00ebzit, s\u2019kam asnj\u00eb peng. Nj\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb pak e trazuar mbase s\u2019do ta kishte b\u00ebr\u00eb kaq t\u00eb lir\u00eb e as kaq t\u00eb prirur p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos q\u00ebndruar dot n\u00eb cekt\u00ebsi. Shpeshher\u00eb prind\u00ebrit i shohin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt si funksione t\u00eb vetes dhe nuk u japin lirin\u00eb e duhur ose u japin nj\u00eb liri t\u00eb rreme duke u plot\u00ebsuar \u00e7do k\u00ebrkes\u00eb deri n\u00eb ekses, pa qen\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb se f\u00ebmija nes\u00ebr do t\u2019i duhet n\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb vetes, jo prindit.<\/p>\n Ju p\u00ebrball\u00eb v\u00ebllait: N\u00eb rinin\u00eb tuaj t\u00eb par\u00eb keni pasur shum\u00eb pika p\u00ebrkimi (sporti \u2013 arti)\u2026 Tashm\u00eb distanca gjeografike a p\u00ebrkthehet ne nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie m\u00eb t\u00eb distancuar?<\/em><\/p>\n Im v\u00eblla ka t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta me mua m\u00ebsimet e pa\u00e7mueshme q\u00eb kemi marr\u00eb nga t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebt prind\u00ebr e nga e nj\u00ebjta gjyshe me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn jemi rritur dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb i ndrysh\u00ebm n\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr. Kjo na b\u00ebn shum\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrt me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin pavar\u00ebsisht se nuk d\u00ebgjohemi p\u00ebrdit\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb fat t\u00eb kesh tim v\u00eblla, si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb problem t\u00eb jesh v\u00ebllai im. Jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb natyr\u00ebs sime krejt jokonvencionale n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet familjare, por edhe sepse p\u00ebr dreq duhet t\u00eb d\u00ebgjosh r\u00ebndom sa n\u00eb televizor e sa n\u00eb gazeta, abuzime nga m\u00eb t\u00eb pad\u00ebshirueshmet deri edhe p\u00ebr n\u00ebn\u00ebn e baban\u00eb\u2026 M\u00eb vjen shum\u00eb keq p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb aspekt kaq t\u00eb pap\u00eblqyesh\u00ebm t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme t\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb familjes sime.<\/p>\n N\u00eb momente t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira sa e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr ju mb\u00ebshtetja e dikujt? A k\u00ebshilloheni?<\/em><\/p>\n P\u00ebr arsye q\u00eb s\u2019i kam kuptuar dot, p\u00ebrshtypja q\u00eb kam krijuar \u00ebsht\u00eb se jam nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb b\u00ebj gjith\u00e7ka me kok\u00ebn time, q\u00eb nuk pyes e nuk d\u00ebgjoj njeri! E v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb krejt, po krejt e kund\u00ebrt me k\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypje. Pyes shum\u00eb dhe jo vet\u00ebm n\u00eb momentet e v\u00ebshtira. Padyshim k\u00ebshillohem dhe madje me nj\u00eb rreth njer\u00ebzish q\u00eb jan\u00eb sa brenda partis\u00eb a bashkis\u00eb, aq edhe jasht\u00eb rrath\u00ebve t\u00eb interesave q\u00eb shpeshher\u00eb mund t\u00eb kusht\u00ebzojn\u00eb mendimin a k\u00ebshill\u00ebn e atyre q\u00eb jan\u00eb brenda. Padyshim pastaj, kur vendos, pasi kam pyetur e d\u00ebgjuar sa kam mundur, mbroj me ngulm \u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb vendosur.<\/p>\n A keni udh\u00ebheq\u00ebs shpirt\u00ebror? A keni modele? A keni nj\u00eb artist q\u00eb qoft\u00eb edhe p\u00ebr nj\u00eb detaj keni dashur \u201cta imitoni\u201d apo nj\u00eb politikan tashm\u00eb?<\/em><\/p>\n Besoj t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kemi heronjt\u00eb, modelet, shembujt q\u00eb na frym\u00ebzojn\u00eb n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn ton\u00eb. Mua m\u00eb duket se jeta e njeriut p\u00ebrcaktohet pik\u00ebrisht nga takimet e tij, virtuale, p\u00ebrmes veprave t\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, apo reale, me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. E k\u00ebshtu them q\u00eb deri k\u00ebtu kam qen\u00eb njeri me shum\u00eb fat, pik\u00ebrisht sepse jeta m\u00eb ka sjell\u00eb p\u00ebrpara njer\u00ebzit e duhur n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e duhur. Nuk e harroj p\u00ebr shembull, takimin me Abdurrahim Buz\u00ebn, n\u00eb adoleshenc\u00ebn time kur n\u00eb studion e tij, plaku i mrekulluesh\u00ebm i piktur\u00ebs shqiptare, m\u00eb \u00e7eli me duart e bardha plot rrudha librin e impresionist\u00ebve, duke m\u00eb zhytur n\u00eb nj\u00eb det t\u00eb panjohur ngjyrash nga ku dola krejt i dehur dhe b\u00ebra me vrap gjith\u00eb rrug\u00ebn, nga Medreseja ku jetonte plaku deri n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb time n\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb Tiran\u00ebs s\u00eb asaj kohe.<\/p>\n Apo takimin me Stravinskin, p\u00ebrmes tingujve t\u00eb Pranver\u00ebs s\u00eb Shenjt\u00eb, ku pllaka e zez\u00eb e gramafonit m\u00eb ngjante si diell q\u00eb rrotullohej para syve t\u00eb mi duke nxjerr\u00eb xixa t\u00eb pap\u00ebrshkrueshme, ose me Kafk\u00ebn e \u201cK\u00ebshtjell\u00ebs\u201d fantazm\u00eb q\u00eb bridhte jast\u00ebk m\u00eb jast\u00ebk duke qarkulluar fshehtas mes lexonj\u00ebsve t\u00eb gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb ndaluara. E plot e plot t\u00eb tilla p\u00ebr fat, n\u00eb mediokritetin vrastar t\u00eb Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb s\u00eb mbyllur t\u00eb asaj kohe, ku megjithat\u00eb mund t\u00eb takoje njer\u00ebz t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonsh\u00ebm a ndesheshe me krijime t\u00eb ndaluara q\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7elnin qiej marramend\u00ebs p\u00ebrtej horizontit t\u00eb ngrir\u00eb t\u00eb kultur\u00ebs komuniste, apo n\u00eb bot\u00ebn e lir\u00eb m\u00eb pas!…<\/p>\n N\u00eb fjalimet tuaja t\u00eb fundit shpesh citoni Nolin apo Konic\u00ebn\u2026 \u00c7far\u00eb lidhjesh gjeni mes koncepteve q\u00eb huazoni prej tyre e tuajave?<\/em><\/p>\n Tek Noli e Konica dhe jo vet\u00ebm tek ata, gjen Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb e sotme t\u00eb treguar me nj\u00eb mjesht\u00ebri t\u00eb admirueshme. Kaq e thjesht\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse un\u00eb u k\u00ebrkoj ndihm\u00eb atyre p\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar m\u00eb mir\u00eb Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb q\u00eb jetojm\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb shekull tjet\u00ebr si n\u00eb nj\u00eb vendnum\u00ebro rr\u00ebqeth\u00ebs.<\/p>\n \u00c7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb fama p\u00ebr ju? E keni k\u00ebrkuar at\u00eb apo rrug\u00ebt q\u00eb keni p\u00ebrshkuar n\u00eb jet\u00eb automatikisht ju kan\u00eb \u00e7uar drejt saj?<\/em><\/p>\n Fama \u00ebsht\u00eb rrjedhoj\u00eb jo shkak i rrug\u00ebs sime. T\u00eb cil\u00ebn nuk do ta ndryshoja p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb i famsh\u00ebm. Un\u00eb nuk besoj tek fama, por tek kujtimi i mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n Supersticionet jan\u00eb nj\u00eb tem\u00eb e k\u00ebtij numri t\u00eb revist\u00ebs Psikologji: Do donim t\u00eb dinim a jeni supersticioz? A ndikoheni prej tyre? A trembeni nga mund\u00ebsia profetike e \u00ebndrrave t\u00eb k\u00ebqija?<\/em><\/p>\n Jo, s\u2019jam supersticioz. S\u2019kam asnj\u00eb frik\u00eb t\u00eb lidhur me t\u00eb panjohur\u00ebn. E jetoj jet\u00ebn si nj\u00eb dhurat\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb, ku vet\u00ebdija e p\u00ebrkohshm\u00ebris\u00eb, qysh n\u00eb motet kur isha edhe nj\u00eb lexues i pasionuar i librave t\u00eb shenjt\u00eb, m\u00eb ka \u00e7liruar shum\u00eb n\u00eb lidhje me t\u00eb mirat materiale dhe m\u00eb ysht papushim drejt realizimeve q\u00eb mbeten pas edhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Qofshin copa letrash t\u00eb ngjyrosura, qofshin projekte t\u00eb m\u00ebdha p\u00ebr qytetin a krejt vendin.<\/p>\n A \u201cguxoni\u201d ju t\u2019i pranoni hapur dob\u00ebsit\u00eb apo nj\u00eb njeri publik, p\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb nj\u00eb lider politik, duhet t\u2019i mbaj\u00eb ato vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr vete?<\/em><\/p>\n Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb prirje e pakusht\u00ebzuar e njeriut t\u2019i pranoj\u00eb dob\u00ebsit\u00eb e veta, por p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht un\u00eb nuk jam i prirur t\u2019i fsheh ato kur n\u00eb nj\u00eb rrethan\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar arsyeja thot\u00eb se duhen pranuar.<\/p>\n Dhe p\u00ebr t\u2019u kthyer n\u00eb nj\u00eb argument politik: Thuhet se shekulli i XXI \u00ebsht\u00eb shekulli i grave. Ju si lider i nj\u00eb force politike si e lexoni nj\u00eb th\u00ebnie t\u00eb till\u00eb?<\/em><\/p>\n I bekuar qoft\u00eb ky shekull n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb i grave! Dhe s\u2019ka dyshim se n\u00ebse \u00e7ka thoni do t\u00eb vlente edhe p\u00ebr Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb, ky vend do t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitonte m\u00eb shum\u00eb se nga \u00e7do shekull tjet\u00ebr!<\/p>\n N\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb ju keni promovuar shum\u00eb gra qoft\u00eb n\u00eb bashki, qoft\u00eb n\u00eb forumet drejtuese t\u00eb PS. Po sa vendimmarr\u00ebse jan\u00eb ato derisa kritik\u00ebt tuaj hedhin hipotez\u00ebn se i keni promovuar pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr t\u00eb shmangur konkurrenc\u00ebn e fort\u00eb mashkullore\u2026 (q\u00eb teorikisht duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb e fort\u00eb se ajo fem\u00ebrore). Cila \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta juaj?<\/em><\/p>\n K\u00ebta kritik\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb sigurt se konkurrenca \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje burrash, madje edhe ju, nj\u00eb grua jo e zakonshme, thoni se teorikisht ata paskan t\u00eb drejt\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrsa mua n\u00eb promovimin e grave nuk m\u00eb shtyn ndonj\u00eb droje nga konkurrenca e burrave, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn, modestisht, e kam p\u00ebrballuar gjerm\u00ebsot duke i\u2019a dal\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb mban\u00eb, por m\u00eb udh\u00ebheq bindja e thell\u00eb se arsyeja themelore e prapambetjes son\u00eb t\u00eb madhe si shoq\u00ebri, n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha aspektet, p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb edhe prapambetjen ekonomike, \u00ebsht\u00eb mungesa e \u00e7do ekuilibri gjinor n\u00eb pjes\u00ebmarrje e vendimmarrje.<\/p>\n Sukseset n\u00eb pun\u00ebt e mia jan\u00eb t\u00eb lidhura ngusht\u00eb me skuadr\u00ebn dhe qoft\u00eb n\u00eb bashki, ku ka nj\u00eb ekuilib\u00ebr t\u00eb plot\u00eb gjinor, e qoft\u00eb n\u00eb parti, ku sot ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb gra n\u00eb vendimmarrje sesa kurr\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb, cil\u00ebsia e pun\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb rritur ndjesh\u00ebm fal\u00eb k\u00ebtij ekuilibri. Un\u00eb prej koh\u00ebsh besoj q\u00eb grat\u00eb shqiptare jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb zonjat se burrat. V\u00ebnia e tyre n\u00eb vendin q\u00eb u takon do t\u00eb b\u00ebnte shum\u00eb m\u00eb shpejt Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb vendin q\u00eb u takon kalamajve t\u00eb k\u00ebtij atdheu t\u00eb abuzuar prej shum\u00eb e shum\u00eb koh\u00ebsh nga burra provincial\u00eb e dallkauk\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" D\u00ebshmi p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn vetjake… nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebria e deri m\u00eb sot. Lideri i t\u00eb majt\u00ebve flet me marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet me n\u00ebn\u00ebn, baban\u00eb, v\u00ebllan\u00eb, t\u00eb birin… dhe grat\u00eb q\u00eb ka pasur n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij… p\u00ebr artin, sportin, politik\u00ebn… Intervistoi Arta Marku, Psikologjia Edi Rama… Mu shfaq n\u00eb kujtes\u00eb, vite t\u00eb shkuara kur refuzoi nj\u00eb \u00e7mim t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-3825","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-intervista"},"yoast_head":"\n