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Kliton NESTURI<\/strong>, 15 n\u00ebntor 2009<\/em><\/p>\n Nj\u00eb dhun\u00eb e re, sa vjen dhe b\u00ebhet m\u00eb e dukshme sot n\u00eb jet\u00ebn shqiptare, dhuna psikologjike. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb shnd\u00ebrruar sot n\u00eb nj\u00eb virus, prej t\u00eb cilit jan\u00eb infektuar t\u00eb gjitha kategorit\u00eb sociale dhe grupmoshat, q\u00eb nga ata m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenjt\u00eb e deri tek ata m\u00eb t\u00eb vegjlit. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb konstatim i duksh\u00ebm dhe i preksh\u00ebm. Jeta shqiptare sot jeton periudh\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb ngarkuar me shum\u00ebllojshm\u00ebrin\u00eb e informacioneve dhe problemeve, t\u00eb cilat i ndeshim n\u00eb \u00e7do hap q\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb gjat\u00eb aktivitetit t\u00eb p\u00ebrditsh\u00ebm. Pik\u00eb s\u00eb pari, k\u00ebt\u00eb dhun\u00eb e ndeshim n\u00eb reflektimin e ngjarjeve dhe t\u00eb probleme q\u00eb ndodh n\u00eb masmedia.<\/p>\n Tashm\u00eb, thuajse \u00e7do lajm nga fusha e politik\u00ebs apo ajo e kronik\u00ebs, nga fusha sociale, apo nga bota q\u00eb vuan n\u00ebn makthin e terrorizmit, \u00ebsht\u00eb kthyer n\u00eb nj\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim, n\u00eb nj\u00eb stres. Shum\u00ebkush nuk e imagjinon dot se si n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend, ku t\u00eb gjith\u00eb protagonist\u00ebt politik\u00eb flasin p\u00ebr demokracin\u00eb, shtetin ligjor dhe progresin, e kan\u00eb t\u00eb pamundur t\u00eb gjejn\u00eb gjuh\u00ebn e p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt, p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjedhur presidentin e shtetit, duke e zvarritur procesin n\u00eb at\u00eb situat\u00eb, sa q\u00eb duket se vendi po shkon krah\u00ebhapur drejt krizave pa fund. Edhe zvarritja e mjaft proceseve, e ligjeve, e traktateve t\u00eb ndryshme, t\u00eb cilat n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb a n\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr do t\u00eb shpejtonin integrimin e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb shtetasve n\u00eb parametra normal\u00eb, gj\u00eb q\u00eb, n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb do t\u2019i afronte edhe m\u00eb ata n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e gjat\u00eb e t\u00eb mundimshme drejt Europ\u00ebs, nuk ka b\u00ebr\u00eb gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, ve\u00e7se ka mbjell\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb nj\u00eb frym\u00eb pasigurie dhe tash po korr nj\u00eb klim\u00eb dhune.<\/p>\n E, kur njer\u00ebzit shohin se politikan\u00ebt, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt quhen edhe \u201cbaballar\u00ebt e kombit\u201d, shpesh flasin dhe sillen n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb pap\u00ebrgjegjshme, n\u00eb lidhje me \u00e7\u00ebshtje t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, \u00e7far\u00eb reflektimi do t\u00eb ket\u00eb jeta e tyre? Natyrisht, vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr lumturi, qet\u00ebsi dhe harmoni nuk mund t\u00eb flitet. Si n\u00eb asnj\u00eb vend tjet\u00ebr, ndoshta ne e kemi lidhur jet\u00ebn me politik\u00ebn, duke e b\u00ebr\u00eb at\u00eb, si dhe bart\u00ebsit kryesor\u00eb t\u00eb saj, pjes\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshm\u00ebris\u00eb son\u00eb. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, shpesh shohim n\u00eb edicionet e lajmeve, n\u00eb televizione t\u00eb ndryshme, nj\u00eb politikan t\u00eb dal\u00eb e t\u00eb flas\u00eb n\u00eb dy-tri kronika t\u00eb ndryshme, duke mos i shp\u00ebtuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe prononcimit q\u00eb, edhe mund t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb i nevojsh\u00ebm. Por, vet\u00eb fakti se lajmet tona jan\u00eb t\u00eb mbushura n\u00eb pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe me politik\u00ebn dhe politikan\u00ebt, q\u00eb shpesh nuk prodhojn\u00eb gj\u00eb, por v\u00ebrtiten rreth orbit\u00ebs shqiptare, tregon, n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre nj\u00eb dhun\u00eb psikologjike, t\u00eb fshehur aq bukur n\u00eb \u00e7astin e par\u00eb.<\/p>\n N\u00eb cilin vend tjet\u00ebr ndodh k\u00ebshtu? Por nuk jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm politikan\u00ebt apo kronikat rreth tyre, q\u00eb na b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb ndihemi t\u00eb dhunuar psikologjikisht. Po t\u00eb hap\u00ebsh gazetat dhe t\u00eb ndjek\u00ebsh televizionet, konstaton se gati p\u00ebr \u00e7do dit\u00eb t\u00eb bie rasti t\u00eb ndeshesh me vrasje, plagosje, grabitje, vet\u00ebvarje, djegie etj. Dhe, vetvetiu t\u00eb lind e drejta t\u00eb b\u00ebsh disa pyetje: N\u00eb cil\u00ebn luft\u00eb ndodhemi vall\u00eb? A jemi ne t\u00eb par\u00ebt, p\u00ebr sa i p\u00ebrket krimit, n\u00eb raport me vendet e zhvilluara? P\u00ebr k\u00ebto dy pyetje, p\u00ebrgjigjja \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201cJo\u201d. At\u00ebher\u00eb? Me keqardhje konstatoj se n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri nuk ka nj\u00eb kategorizim t\u00eb informacionit. Thua \u00e7do vjedhje apo plagosje, vrasje p\u00ebr motive banale apo vjedhje or\u00ebsh apo bizhush, z\u00eb nj\u00eb vend t\u00eb konsideruesh\u00ebm n\u00eb edicionet e lajmeve apo n\u00eb faqet e gazetave. \u00c7do t\u00eb ndodhte sikur Fox, ARD, CNN, France 2, BBC, TVE etj. t\u00eb jepnin n\u00eb edicionet e tyre \u00e7do krim q\u00eb ndodh n\u00eb Shtetet e Bashkuara t\u00eb Amerik\u00ebs, Gjermani, Franc\u00eb, Britani apo Spanj\u00eb? Edicionet e lajmeve do t\u00eb ishin t\u00eb mbushura me kronik\u00eb t\u00eb zez\u00eb dhe shumica e amerikan\u00ebve, gjerman\u00ebve, francez\u00ebve, britanik\u00ebve, spanjoll\u00ebve e ndonj\u00eb komb\u00ebsi tjet\u00ebr, t\u00eb lemerisur do ta braktisnin me vrap vendin e tyre, duke rendur ndoshta pa e ditur se p\u00ebr ku. Dhe k\u00ebshtu, banori shqiptar, t\u00eb cilit i merret fryma nga streset dhe problemet, me t\u00eb cilat mbushet jeta e tij \u00e7do dit\u00eb, p\u00ebrballet edhe me frik\u00ebn nga terrorizmi, i cili mund ta p\u00ebrfshij\u00eb edhe at\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb bukur me diell. N\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, ai kupton se askush nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i mbrojtur dhe nuk mund t\u00eb ndihet i qet\u00eb prej k\u00ebtij armiku sa t\u00eb vjet\u00ebr po aq edhe t\u00eb ri n\u00eb historin\u00eb e njer\u00ebzimit. Pavar\u00ebsisht deklaratave mediatike, ai ndihet nj\u00ebsoj i rrezikuar, si nj\u00eb qytetar n\u00eb Lond\u00ebr apo n\u00eb Paris, Nju-Jork apo n\u00eb Berlin. T\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00ebra pjes\u00eb e dhun\u00ebs s\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme. Pjesa tjet\u00ebr, por m\u00eb kryesorja, \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb \u00e7do njeri ndesh drejtp\u00ebrdrejt n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij. Kush mund t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ndihet i qet\u00eb gjat\u00eb nj\u00ebzetekat\u00ebror\u00ebshit?<\/p>\n N\u00eb realitetin e sot\u00ebm, \u00e7dokush ndihet i frik\u00ebsuar ndaj humbjes s\u00eb investimit t\u00eb kryer, t\u00eb pun\u00ebs, biznesit, t\u00eb ardhurave. Ve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, \u00e7dokush duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrballoj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet me personat q\u00eb ndesh, e q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb karaktere nga m\u00eb t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm, q\u00eb nga m\u00eb paq\u00ebsor\u00ebt e deri tek ata t\u00eb dhunshmit, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt mund ta p\u00ebrplasin makin\u00ebn e tyre pas t\u00ebndes n\u00eb \u00e7do koh\u00eb dhe pastaj t\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb d\u00ebmshp\u00ebrblim, ta ngren\u00eb muzik\u00ebn tej parametrave t\u00eb lejuara, duke shijuar n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb vet\u00ebm qejfin e tyre, apo t\u00eb kryejn\u00eb punime n\u00eb nd\u00ebrtes\u00ebn ku ti banon s\u00eb bashku me ta, qoft\u00eb edhe n\u00eb or\u00ebt e mbr\u00ebmjes apo edhe ato t\u00eb mesnat\u00ebs, duke t\u00eb kujtuar vetvetiu titullin e k\u00ebng\u00ebs s\u00eb grupit te Ben\u00e7\u00ebs, \u201cBij \u00e7obanesh neve jemi\u201d. Me gjith\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dhun\u00eb, k\u00ebto p\u00ebrplasje, vetja t\u00eb duket si personazhi i Henri Perounit, n\u00eb romanin \u201cE shtuna\u201d t\u00eb Ian McEwan, t\u00eb cilin e ka botuar s\u00eb fundmi n\u00eb shqip \u201cSkanderbeg books\u201d. Me gjith\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dhun\u00eb, k\u00ebto p\u00ebrplasje, vetja mund t\u00eb t\u00eb duket nj\u00eb personazh simpatik, i cili pa buj\u00eb e zhurm\u00eb mund t\u00eb z\u00ebr\u00eb vend n\u00eb kronik\u00ebn e zez\u00eb t\u00eb dit\u00ebs. Kliton NESTURI, 15 n\u00ebntor 2009 Nj\u00eb dhun\u00eb e re, sa vjen dhe b\u00ebhet m\u00eb e dukshme sot n\u00eb jet\u00ebn shqiptare, dhuna psikologjike. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb shnd\u00ebrruar sot n\u00eb nj\u00eb virus, prej t\u00eb cilit jan\u00eb infektuar t\u00eb gjitha kategorit\u00eb sociale dhe grupmoshat, q\u00eb nga ata m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenjt\u00eb e deri tek ata m\u00eb t\u00eb vegjlit. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n
\nAt\u00ebher\u00eb, p\u00ebrse shqiptar\u00ebt duhet q\u00eb ta ken\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb \u201cluks\u201d? Apo n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri duhet t\u00eb ndihet sa me shume efekti \u201czhurme dhe kaos\u201d nd\u00ebrsa jeta e individit ka m\u00eb pak vler\u00eb se kudo? Ne flasim shpesh p\u00ebr problemet sociale, por shpesh ndodh q\u00eb nuk i shohim ato t\u00eb pasqyruara ashtu si\u00e7 duhet. Edhe kur ndeshemi me to, shpesh nuk rrekemi t\u00eb ecim drejt zgjidhjes, por, m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti, i l\u00ebm\u00eb ato n\u00eb aj\u00ebr, duke e hedhur topin sa n\u00eb nj\u00ebrin krah t\u00eb politik\u00ebs, n\u00eb krahun tjet\u00ebr. K\u00ebshtu ka ndodhur me energjin\u00eb, me ujin, me rrug\u00ebt, me l\u00ebvizjen e lir\u00eb e plot t\u00eb tjera. E, duke mbetur n\u00eb aj\u00ebr, problemet kthehen n\u00eb strese dhe makthe pa fund. N\u00eb stres \u00ebsht\u00eb kthyer tashm\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb bomb\u00eb q\u00eb shp\u00ebrthen n\u00eb Afganistan apo nj\u00eb kamikaz q\u00eb hidhet n\u00eb er\u00eb rrug\u00ebve t\u00eb Bagdadit. Pamje t\u00eb tilla vijn\u00eb n\u00eb ekranet tona thuajse \u00e7do dit\u00eb.<\/p>\n
\nN\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri dhuna psikologjike, e cila fillon q\u00eb nga lajmet m\u00eb t\u00eb zakonshme, me t\u00eb cilat \u00ebsht\u00eb mbushur masmedia, p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb ndodh n\u00eb vend dhe n\u00eb bot\u00eb, e deri te problemet, me t\u00eb cilat ndeshet jeta jon\u00eb, nd\u00ebrthuret me dhun\u00ebn fizike, n\u00eb at\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb saq\u00eb duket sikur \u00e7do gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e destinuar t\u00eb vdes\u00eb pa rrug\u00ebzgjidhje. Pa humbur koh\u00eb, duhet q\u00eb, n\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, institucionet e ndryshme t\u00eb marrin p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr rolin e rregullatorit, duke filluar fillimisht nga vetja. Ndryshe, njer\u00ebzit do t\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb se gjithnj\u00eb politikan\u00ebt dhe jeta shqiptare gjenerojn\u00eb konflikt, se jan\u00eb t\u00eb paaft\u00eb t\u00eb ecin me k\u00ebmb\u00ebt e veta e se, ne t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, mund t\u00eb na pranojn\u00eb n\u00eb proceset e integrimit thjesht p\u00ebr m\u00ebshir\u00eb apo keqardhje. Por kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm pjesa e par\u00eb e mendimit, p\u00ebr t\u00eb vazhduar m\u00eb pas, t\u00eb ndihet edhe m\u00eb i dhunuar n\u00ebn pesh\u00ebn e dhun\u00ebs.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"