![\"Pierre-Pandeli](\"http:\/\/www.shkoder.net\/images\/fjala\/pp_simsia.jpg\")
<\/p>\n<\/p>\n
Tregim <\/em>nga Pierre-Pandeli Simsia<\/strong><\/p>\n – Mbete gjith\u00eb dit\u00ebn n\u00eb kompjuter, moj bij\u00eb – i tha e \u00ebma kur hyri n\u00eb dhom\u00eb dhe eci drejt saj. – S\u2019po kuptoj se \u00e7\u2019po ndodh me ty; e ke lidhur jet\u00ebn vet\u00ebm me k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb uruar kompjuter. Epo edhe k\u00ebshtu nuk b\u00ebhet, ngrysu, gdhiu, ti vet\u00ebm kompjuter e ke mendjen! – Mama! Do shkoj n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, n\u00eb universitet. – Ktheu kok\u00ebn nga e \u00ebma q\u00eb po rrinte n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb n\u00eb an\u00ebn e djatht\u00eb t\u00eb saj. N\u00eb fytyr\u00eb iu dallua nj\u00eb shprehje g\u00ebzimi. – Un\u00eb, me k\u00eb do rri n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, n\u00ebse ik\u00ebn ti n\u00eb universitet? – tha e \u00ebma dhe mblodhi buz\u00ebt e habitur. Pastaj, duke i dh\u00ebn\u00eb kok\u00ebs nj\u00eb l\u00ebvizje majtas djathtas n\u00eb shenj\u00eb mohimi, foli e habitur: – Universitet!? Nuk ke mosh\u00eb ti moj bij\u00eb tani p\u00ebr n\u00eb universitet! Shkolla ka koh\u00ebn dhe vaktin e saj. Ti edhe shkoll\u00ebn e mesme atje, n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri\u2026 – nuk e vazhdoi mendimin ta thoshte deri n\u00eb fund, nd\u00ebrsa me vete po thoshte: \u201cTi edhe shkoll\u00ebn e mesme, me t\u00eb shtytur, si i thon\u00eb fjal\u00ebs, e morre. Ajo ishte nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb q\u00eb i kishte kaluar t\u00eb 30-tat. Jetonte vet\u00ebm me t\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebn. N\u00eb Sh.B.A. kishin ardhur si fituese t\u00eb llotaris\u00eb amerikane p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb banore e p\u00ebrhershme e Amerik\u00ebs. N\u00eb rinin\u00eb e saj, kishte pasur histori t\u00eb ndryshme dashurie dhe gjithmon\u00eb kishte dal\u00eb e zhg\u00ebnjyer, jo p\u00ebr fajin e saj, si\u00e7 e thoshte edhe ajo vet\u00eb, por nga mentaliteti konservator i meshkujve\u2026<\/p>\n P\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn e saj, q\u00eb e kishte hedhur pas krah\u00ebve, nuk donte t\u2019ia dinte. E \u00ebma ishte e k\u00ebnaqur me pun\u00ebn q\u00eb b\u00ebnte, jo vet\u00ebm se paguhej mir\u00eb, por i ishte mund\u00ebsuar edhe fjetja n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e t\u00eb moshuar\u00ebs s\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00eb. Vajz\u00ebs i ishte m\u00ebrzitur puna dhe, si p\u00ebr t\u2019a larguar at\u00eb m\u00ebrzitje, pjes\u00ebn e mbetur t\u00eb koh\u00ebs s\u00eb lir\u00eb e kalonte n\u00eb kompjuter. E klikoi p\u00ebr t\u00eb lexuar se \u00e7\u2019shkruhej n\u00eb at\u00eb mesazh; nga nj\u00eb universitet jasht\u00eb shtetit ku ato banonin, e njoftonin t\u00eb regjistrohej n\u00eb at\u00eb shkoll\u00eb e t\u00eb vazhdonte studimet on-line dhe ajo mund t\u00eb zgjidhte nj\u00eb nga ato diploma gradimi: bachelor, masters degree, professor doktor. E lexoi disa her\u00eb at\u00eb \u00e7\u2019far\u00eb ishte shkruar, plot\u00ebsimin e formularit dhe t\u00eb dh\u00ebnat e tjera. U dyzua pak, kur lexoi shum\u00ebn e majme q\u00eb duhej p\u00ebr t\u00eb paguar shkoll\u00ebn, por, mendimi se do pajisej me nj\u00eb diplom\u00eb universitare amerikane, si e vetmja mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb ecur n\u00eb jet\u00eb, e qet\u00ebsoi. Z\u00ebri tjet\u00ebr matan\u00eb telefonit, e mir\u00ebpriti k\u00ebrkes\u00ebn e saj p\u00ebr t\u2019u regjistruar si studente on-line n\u00eb at\u00eb universitet, madje, ai z\u00eb, iu duk i \u00ebmb\u00ebl dhe e folura e gruas iu duk me kultur\u00eb\u2026 Pas dy vjet\u00eb m\u00ebsimi on-line erdhi dita e shum\u00ebpritur. N\u00eb ceremonin\u00eb e dor\u00ebzimit t\u00eb diplomave, midis student\u00ebve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, ishte edhe ajo. N\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e tyre ai sukses i vajz\u00ebs, mbrojtja e diplom\u00ebs, nuk mund t\u00eb kalonte pa nj\u00eb ceremoni g\u00ebzimi familjar. Kishte kaluar, pothuajse nj\u00eb vit e gjys\u00ebm dhe vajza ishte akoma n\u00eb pritjen e gjetjes s\u00eb ndonj\u00eb pune. P\u00ebr t\u2019a b\u00ebr\u00eb bind\u00ebs at\u00eb fakt, diplom\u00ebn e fotokopjonin n\u00eb sy t\u00eb vajz\u00ebs, e fusnin n\u00eb sirtar\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr t\u2019a hedhur m\u00eb von\u00eb n\u00eb koshin e plehrave Mendoi t\u00eb kthehej n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, si e vetmja mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u2019u pun\u00ebsuar. \u201cE kam arm\u00ebn e fort\u00eb tani, diploma nga nj\u00eb universitet amerikan\u201d – dhe buz\u00ebqeshi me k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi. Tregim nga Pierre-Pandeli Simsia – Mbete gjith\u00eb dit\u00ebn n\u00eb kompjuter, moj bij\u00eb – i tha e \u00ebma kur hyri n\u00eb dhom\u00eb dhe eci drejt saj. Ajo, si t\u00eb mos kishte d\u00ebgjuar se \u00e7\u2019foli e \u00ebma, klikoi mbi kompjuter dhe figura, u zhduk menj\u00ebher\u00eb. N\u00eb ekran, u duk\u00ebn disa shkronja, q\u00eb t\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebs iu duk\u00ebn shum\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,11],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n
\nAjo, si t\u00eb mos kishte d\u00ebgjuar se \u00e7\u2019foli e \u00ebma, klikoi mbi kompjuter dhe figura, u zhduk menj\u00ebher\u00eb. N\u00eb ekran, u duk\u00ebn disa shkronja, q\u00eb t\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebs iu duk\u00ebn shum\u00eb t\u00eb vogla p\u00ebr t\u2019i lexuar, ndoshta edhe pse ishte pa syze.<\/p>\n
\nVajza i dha nj\u00eb shtytje kok\u00ebs prapa duke e rotulluar, si p\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar lodhjen e saj, f\u00ebrkoi t\u00ebmthin e majt\u00eb me gishtin e mesit t\u00eb dor\u00ebs, pastaj, si e p\u00ebrgjumur, hapi goj\u00ebn dhe vuri dor\u00ebn para saj.<\/p>\n
\nE \u00ebma, si t\u00eb mos e kishte d\u00ebgjuar mir\u00eb se \u00e7\u2019i tha e bija, e pyeti: – \u00c7\u2019far\u00eb the? Shkoll\u00eb, universitet?! – Fytyra e saj, menj\u00ebher\u00eb mori shprehje habie
\n– Po! – iu p\u00ebrgjigj ajo. L\u00ebvizi karriken rrotulluese pak majtas dhe p\u00ebrs\u00ebri u kthye nga e \u00ebma.<\/p>\n
\n– Mama, disa her\u00eb t\u2019a kam th\u00ebn\u00eb dhe ti je vet\u00eb e nd\u00ebrgjegjshme, jemi n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb k\u00ebtu dhe\u2026 – i dha flok\u00ebve t\u00eb saja ngjyr\u00eb g\u00ebshtenj\u00eb, nj\u00eb l\u00ebvizje me dor\u00eb, duke i hedhur prapa kurrizit.<\/p>\n
\nSapo erdh\u00ebn n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb, t\u00eb dyja, n\u00ebn\u00eb e bij\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrballuar v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb e fillimit t\u00eb nj\u00eb jete t\u00eb re e t\u00eb panjohur n\u00eb emigracion, ishin regjistruar n\u00eb nj\u00eb shkoll\u00eb me program m\u00ebsimor dy javor, p\u00ebr p\u00ebrkujdesjen e t\u00eb moshuarve. Nga ajo shkoll\u00eb dy javore ishin pajisur edhe me d\u00ebshmi kualifikimi, e cila i ndihmoi edhe n\u00eb gjetjen e menj\u00ebhershme t\u00eb pun\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
\nN\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin pozicion pune si e \u00ebma ishte edhe e bija, por se ajo, n\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje vinte t\u00eb flinte n\u00eb apartamentin e tyre t\u00eb marr\u00eb me qera.
\nPuna e t\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebs nuk zgjati m\u00eb shum\u00eb se tre vjet\u00eb; e moshuara nd\u00ebrroi jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n
\nAt\u00eb dit\u00eb, kur u ul para kompjuterit, midis mesazheve t\u00eb shumt\u00eb, i kishte ardhur edhe nj\u00eb mesazh nga nj\u00eb adres\u00eb e panjohur.<\/p>\n
\nIu duk e \u00e7uditshme, por edhe nj\u00eb ndjeng\u00eb g\u00ebzimi jetoi n\u00eb ato \u00e7aste. \u201cSi m\u2019a kan\u00eb gjetur adres\u00ebn e e-mail-it!\u201d – mendoi.<\/p>\n
\nP\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb m\u00eb e qart\u00eb me at\u00eb \u00e7\u2019far\u00eb i kishte ardhur, mendoi t\u00eb bisedonte direkt me shkoll\u00ebn, sipas numrit t\u00eb sh\u00ebnuar.<\/p>\n
\nVajza e pranoi edhe pages\u00ebn e shkoll\u00ebs.
\n– M\u00ebsimi do jet\u00eb on-line, vet\u00ebm se, p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb korrekte me rregullat e shkoll\u00ebs, duhet t\u00eb paraqitesh n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7\u2019do fundsezoni – i tha z\u00ebri matan\u00eb telefonit.
\n– J\u2019u lutem, j\u2019u lutem shum\u00eb! Diploma m\u00eb intereson edhe n\u00ebse nuk e kam mund\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb paraqitem n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb\u2026
\n\u00c7\u2019do gj\u00eb u qart\u00ebsua…<\/p>\n
\nPas ceremonis\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndet\u00ebse, falenderimit dhe urimit n\u00eb pun\u00ebn e re t\u00eb gjith\u00eb student\u00ebt t\u00eb veshur me uniform\u00ebn e diplomimit, u shp\u00ebrndan\u00eb t\u00eb g\u00ebzuar, duke mbajtur n\u00eb duar diplom\u00ebn universitare dhe \u00ebndr\u00ebn e gjetjes s\u00eb pun\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
\nT\u00eb dyja, n\u00ebn\u00eb e bij\u00eb, menduan t\u00eb shtrojn\u00eb nj\u00eb dark\u00eb familjare, ku t\u00eb ftuar do ishin miqt\u00eb dhe shok\u00ebt e tyre m\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrm.
\nN\u00eb nj\u00eb cep t\u00eb dhom\u00ebs, q\u00eb ishte regulluar bukur, varrej fotografia e saj n\u00eb dit\u00ebn e diplomimit.
\nPak e nga pak, dhoma e pritjes u mbush me t\u00eb ardhurit, fytyrat e tyre ishin t\u00eb qeshura.
\nM\u00eb t\u00eb qeshura, dukeshin fytyrat e n\u00ebn\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb bij\u00ebs.
\nDisa nga miqt\u00eb e ardhur, nuk nguruan t\u00eb shprehnin habi me veten e tyre.<\/p>\n
\nKishte trokitur n\u00eb shum\u00eb dyer zyrash dhe kompani t\u00eb ndryshme. E kishin mir\u00ebpritur n\u00eb takimin e par\u00eb dhe, kur kishin par\u00eb diplom\u00ebn e shkoll\u00ebs on-line, nuk e kishin vazhduar m\u00eb bised\u00ebn.
\nAsaj vet\u00ebm i premtuan, duke e p\u00ebrcjell\u00eb me fjal\u00ebt refren: “Po j\u2019u sh\u00ebnojm\u00eb numrin tuaj t\u00eb telefonit dhe, mund\u00ebsia e par\u00eb q\u00eb do na krijohet p\u00ebr pun\u00eb do t\u2019ju th\u00ebrrasim vet\u00eb”.<\/p>\n
\nAjo pritje e gjat\u00eb, asaj nuk po i p\u00eblqente edhe pse mundohej t\u00eb mos e shprehte shqet\u00ebsimin n\u00eb sy t\u00eb s\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebs, nd\u00ebrsa, vet\u00eb e \u00ebma kishte koh\u00eb q\u00eb po e brehte meraku dhe shqet\u00ebsimi i mosgjetjes s\u00eb pun\u00ebs. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, nuk nguroi t\u2018 thoshte: –
\nPaguam gjith\u00eb ato para\u2019 moj bij\u00eb, b\u00ebre gjith\u00eb at\u00eb shkoll\u00eb dhe, pun\u00eb nuk ke gjetur akoma. Po b\u00ebhen gati dy vjet\u00eb. Ajo shkolla e par\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebm\u00eb bashk\u00eb, v\u00ebrtet dy javore ishte, por, jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb nuk paguam, por edhe pun\u00ebn na e gjeti menj\u00ebher\u00eb.
\nEdhe vajza vet\u00eb e dinte mir\u00eb, q\u00eb ajo diplom\u00eb universitare online nuk kishte shum\u00eb vler\u00eb dhe mund\u00ebsi gjetje pune.<\/p>\n
\nIu kujtua nj\u00eb e njohura e saj para pak koh\u00ebsh, q\u00eb kishte mbaruar shkoll\u00ebn dhe ishte diplomuar on-line si edhe ajo. Ishte kthyer n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri dhe menj\u00ebher\u00eb ishte pun\u00ebsuar, madje edhe n\u00eb administrat\u00ebn shtet\u00ebrore.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"