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Nga: EDUARD ZALOSHNJA<\/strong><\/p>\n Po t\u00eb b\u00ebhej nj\u00eb analiz\u00eb statistikore e gazetave shqiptare, do t\u00eb vihej re se, si n\u00eb shum\u00eb gazeta t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb bot\u00ebs, shumica d\u00ebrrmuese e analizave dhe opinioneve marrin shkas nga zhvillime politike aktuale. Duke qen\u00eb dhe un\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr ata q\u00eb shpesh nuk i rezistojn\u00eb tundimit p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkruar rreth ngjarjeve t\u00eb dit\u00ebs n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, k\u00ebsaj here, vendosa ta l\u00eb m\u00ebnjan\u00eb lenten q\u00eb p\u00ebrdor zakonisht n\u00eb analizimin e tablos\u00eb politike shqiptare nga af\u00ebr, p\u00ebr ta par\u00eb at\u00eb nga nj\u00eb k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrim m\u00eb i gjer\u00eb.<\/p>\n Shkak p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb zhvendosje t\u00eb fokusit u b\u00eb leximi i disa sh\u00ebnimeve personale rreth nj\u00eb episodi t\u00eb 17 vjet\u00ebve m\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb nga kafenet\u00eb e universitetit \u201cVirginia Tech\u201d n\u00eb SHBA. N\u00eb at\u00eb kafene po diskutoja me disa bashk\u00ebstudent\u00eb pasuniversitar\u00eb shqiptar\u00eb rreth zhvillimeve politike n\u00eb atdhe. N\u00eb \u00e7astin kur debati po arrinte temperatura t\u00eb larta, dometh\u00ebn\u00eb, kur inati ia kishte z\u00ebn\u00eb vendin argumenteve racional\u00eb, aty pran\u00eb kaloi nj\u00eb profesor i yn\u00eb. \u201c\u00c7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb subjekti i k\u00ebtij debati kaq t\u00eb zjarrt\u00eb?\u201d – pyeti profesori. \u201cPolitika shqiptare\u201d, – iu p\u00ebrgjigj\u00ebm ne. \u201cDuke ju par\u00eb ju, mij\u00ebra kilometra larg Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb, t\u00eb diskutoni me kaq zjarr rreth politik\u00ebs s\u00eb atjeshme, nuk e kam t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb imagjinoj se si zhvillohet debati mes politikan\u00ebve shqiptar\u00eb\u201d, – v\u00ebrejti profesori.<\/p>\n Sot, 17 vjet m\u00eb pas, \u00e7do ndjek\u00ebs i debatit politik shqiptar e ka t\u00eb leht\u00eb t\u00eb konstatoj\u00eb se deduktimi q\u00eb b\u00ebri profesori amerikan \u00ebsht\u00eb akoma i vlefsh\u00ebm. Dhe duke hedhur v\u00ebshtrimin p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb 17 vjet\u00ebve t\u00eb fundit, mund t\u00eb vihet re se konfliktualiteti ekstrem politik \u00ebsht\u00eb shfaqur me petka nga m\u00eb t\u00eb larmishmet n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. K\u00ebshtu, disa her\u00eb ai \u00ebsht\u00eb veshur me kostumin e bojkotit, kapitenit irlandez t\u00eb viteve \u20181880, nd\u00ebrsa her\u00eb t\u00eb tjera ka v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb kok\u00eb kapelen e policit q\u00eb rreh politikan\u00ebt e opozit\u00ebs para kamerave t\u00eb \u201cEuronews\u201d.<\/p>\n N\u00eb ndonj\u00eb rast \u00ebsht\u00eb shfaqur edhe me petkun e gardianit t\u00eb burgut t\u00eb B\u00ebn\u00e7\u00ebs apo t\u00eb Tiran\u00ebs, nd\u00ebrsa n\u00eb raste m\u00eb ekstreme ka veshur edhe uniformat e \u201cgjeneral\u00ebve\u201d q\u00eb i v\u00ebn\u00eb flak\u00ebn Jugut, apo rebel\u00ebve q\u00eb djegin Kryeministrin\u00eb e pushtojn\u00eb Radio-Televizionin. Dhe n\u00eb sfond t\u00eb k\u00ebtyre shfaqjeve s\u2019kan\u00eb munguar notat e larta t\u00eb trompetave t\u00eb sharjeve dhe akuzave t\u00eb r\u00ebnda, si p\u00ebr kampin kund\u00ebrshtar, ashtu edhe p\u00ebr rival\u00ebt brenda kampit.<\/p>\n Kur bisedojn\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb konfliktualitet t\u00eb vazhduesh\u00ebm t\u00eb politik\u00ebs son\u00eb, shqiptar\u00ebt e lodhur prej tij gjejn\u00eb ngush\u00ebllim tek epiteti fatalist \u201cgjak shqiptari\u201d, i cili n\u00ebnkupton se konfliktualiteti \u00ebsht\u00eb i skalitur n\u00eb nj\u00eb far\u00eb m\u00ebnyre n\u00eb genet e shqiptar\u00ebve. Si i till\u00eb, ai konsiderohet nj\u00eb mallkim t\u00eb cilit nuk i shp\u00ebtojm\u00eb dot. Por k\u00ebt\u00eb fatalitet do ta kund\u00ebrshtonte \u00e7do psikolog. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb konkluzion i provuar dhe i pranuar nga shumica d\u00ebrrmuese e psikolog\u00ebve se, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb genet luajn\u00eb nj\u00eb rol t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm n\u00eb formimin e profilit psikologjik t\u00eb njeriut, ambienti familjar e shoq\u00ebror q\u00eb e rrethon at\u00eb, sidomos n\u00eb 18 vjet\u00ebt e para t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, ka nj\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi akoma m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe.<\/p>\n Duke ndjekur k\u00ebt\u00eb linj\u00eb arsyetimi t\u00eb psikolog\u00ebve, vlen t\u00eb hidhet nj\u00eb v\u00ebshtrim n\u00eb vitet e para t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb politikan\u00ebve t\u00eb sot\u00ebm, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb zbulohen disa nga faktor\u00ebt ambiental\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb ndikuar n\u00eb formimin e tyre si sherrxhinj t\u00eb p\u00ebrbetuar. Ky konfliktualitet brenda familjes e kishte burimin kryesisht tek lufta mes mentalitetit tradicional, sipas t\u00eb cilit gruaja ishte thjesht nj\u00eb objekt q\u00eb plot\u00ebsonte disa funksione t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme familjare, dhe mentalitetit t\u00eb inkurajuar nga l\u00ebvizja p\u00ebr emancipimin e gruas, i cili e shihte at\u00eb si nj\u00eb subjekt me t\u00eb drejta t\u00eb barabarta n\u00eb jet\u00ebn bashk\u00ebshortore.<\/p>\n Nga ana e saj, atmosfera e konfliktualitetit n\u00eb familje, p\u00ebrve\u00e7se helmonte marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet bashk\u00ebshortore, padyshim q\u00eb krijonte edhe deformime psikologjike tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Dhe duke u shoq\u00ebruar jasht\u00eb familjes me shok\u00eb e shoqe q\u00eb jetonin n\u00eb nj\u00eb ambient t\u00eb ngjash\u00ebm familjar, k\u00ebto deformime t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve vet\u00ebm p\u00ebrforcoheshin m\u00eb tep\u00ebr. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, t\u00eb vetmet struktura shoq\u00ebrore t\u00eb presupozuara t\u00eb \u201cfark\u00ebtonin\u201d ndjenj\u00ebn e bashk\u00ebpunimit dhe komunikimit t\u00eb civilizuar tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb ishin organizatat e pionier\u00ebve e t\u00eb rinis\u00eb, t\u00eb cilat ngaq\u00eb nuk ishin ngritur mbi baza vullnetare, nuk mund ta realizonin dot k\u00ebt\u00eb synim.<\/p>\n N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, si familja ashtu edhe shoq\u00ebria shqiptare, d\u00ebshtuan n\u00eb misionin e krijimit t\u00eb nj\u00eb ambienti pozitiv p\u00ebr zhvillimin psikologjik t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb at\u00ebhersh\u00ebm. Dhe ata f\u00ebmij\u00eb jan\u00eb sot burra e gra, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt, kush m\u00eb shum\u00eb e kush m\u00eb pak, i vuajn\u00eb pasojat e atij d\u00ebshtimi\u2026<\/p>\n Duke e kthyer v\u00ebshtrimin tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e sot\u00ebm, prind\u00ebrit e tyre duhet t\u00eb ken\u00eb parasysh se, p\u00ebr sa koh\u00eb zihen e grihen n\u00eb syt\u00eb e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve (n\u00eb vend q\u00eb, ose t\u00eb divorcohen n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb civilizuar, ose t\u00eb komunikojn\u00eb si njer\u00ebz mes tyre), dhe p\u00ebr sa koh\u00eb q\u00eb nuk krijojn\u00eb vullnetarisht organizata edukuese-arg\u00ebtuese f\u00ebminore p\u00ebr t\u00eb sfiduar influencat negative t\u00eb rrug\u00ebs, nuk duhet t\u00eb ken\u00eb shpresa t\u00eb m\u00ebdha se politikan\u00ebt e nes\u00ebrm do t\u00eb jen\u00eb m\u00eb pak sherrxhinj se t\u00eb sotmit. Dhe sa p\u00ebr politikan\u00ebt aktual\u00eb, e vetmja gj\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb shpresohet \u00ebsht\u00eb edukimi i tyre n\u00eb kopshtin q\u00eb quhet NATO-BE, edukator\u00ebt e t\u00eb cilit, her\u00eb me hir e her\u00eb me pahir, mundohen t\u2019i detyrojn\u00eb politikan\u00ebt tan\u00eb t\u00eb sillen n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb civilizuar…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Nga: EDUARD ZALOSHNJA Po t\u00eb b\u00ebhej nj\u00eb analiz\u00eb statistikore e gazetave shqiptare, do t\u00eb vihej re se, si n\u00eb shum\u00eb gazeta t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb bot\u00ebs, shumica d\u00ebrrmuese e analizave dhe opinioneve marrin shkas nga zhvillime politike aktuale. Duke qen\u00eb dhe un\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr ata q\u00eb shpesh nuk i rezistojn\u00eb tundimit p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkruar rreth ngjarjeve […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-2741","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-artikuj"},"yoast_head":"\n
\nMegjith\u00ebse mungojn\u00eb statistikat p\u00ebrkat\u00ebse, nuk do t\u00eb ishte ndonj\u00eb ekzagjerim i madh po t\u00eb hamend\u00ebsohej se gjysma e \u00e7ifteve shqiptare t\u00eb koh\u00ebs kur politikan\u00ebt e sot\u00ebm ishin f\u00ebmij\u00eb do t\u00eb ishin divorcuar n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se kultura e divorcit t\u00eb civilizuar, karakteristike p\u00ebr vendet e zhvilluara, do t\u00eb ekzistonte edhe n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. M\u00eb tej, nuk do t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb hamendje n\u00eb tym po t\u00eb thuhej se edhe gjysma tjet\u00ebr e \u00e7ifteve shqiptare t\u00eb asaj kohe b\u00ebnte nj\u00eb jet\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortore q\u00eb jo gjithnj\u00eb karakterizohej nga bashk\u00ebpunimi dhe debatimi i civilizuar mes bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebve.<\/p>\n